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The father of the mass shooting suspect accused of killing four people at Apalachee High School in Winder, Georgia, told investigators this week he had purchased the gun used in the killings as a holiday present for his son in December 2023, according to two law enforcement sources with direct knowledge of the investigation.

Colt Gray, a 14-year-old student, is accused of killing two students and two teachers with an AR-style rifle in the Wednesday shooting. Nine more people were hospitalized.

One source told CNN the AR-15-style rifle was purchased at a local gun store as a Christmas present.

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[–] [email protected] 63 points 2 months ago (7 children)

My pragmatic side is absolutely disgusted with this - why would you gift a gun to your kid while living in an urban area? It makes no practical sense other than fueling this weird American obsession with guns.

I understand giving your teen kid a hunting rifle if you live in a rural area and go hunting sometimes, but not an AR in a city - it's just asking for trouble.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 2 months ago

After police talked to you about the kid having made online threats to do a school shooting.

He knew. And he gave him a gun anyways. I hope he gets convicted and sued into the ground.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago (2 children)

My fourteen year has a few guns. 20 gauge single shot break barrel, .410 single shot break barrel, bolt action .22 rifle and a single action .22 revolver. (Single action revolvers are the really old school kind where you have to cock the hammer each time it shoots. It's a damn big revolver as well, good luck concealing it.) They are used for varmint control and hunting. The revolver is great for rat shot and he has taken quite a few gophers with it. He understands what guns do and how they cause death.

We hunt, fish, camp, kayak, live on a tiny farm.

I don't own an AR, don't have use for one at this time. Giving a kid an AR and uncontrolled access to it in an urban environment is nucking futz. My son has access to his guns because I trust him to safely and respectfully use them. He also has been trained in their proper use since he was 7 or 8.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 months ago (1 children)

And what would you do if the police showed up to politely talk about your kid making school shooting threats online?

The relevant bit from the article, that they buried-

The timeline the teen’s father provided to authorities would put the gun purchase months after authorities first contacted Gray and his family to investigate school shooting threats made online.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 months ago (2 children)

That's kind of the point I'm trying to make. There's a healthy way for kids to have and use guns, but it certainly isn't this.

America has so warped its perception of guns that they're now some sort of male enhancement device and tied into people's identity.

This is probably a somewhat idealized view of the past, but I would think most Americans of the past viewed guns primarily as tool instead of as a supplementary cock.

Those people have no business owning a gun. I fully support some sort of gun control. Even more than that, public healthcare including mental healthcare would go a long way towards reducing shootings like this.

If the cops showed up to talk to me about my kid making threats, I would very politely listen to them without saying much or incriminating any of us. I'd check in with his teachers, get their side. Then I'd almost certainly lock up every gun, most of the knives and get him to a shrink. If we could afford it, we'd be looking into inpatient therapy.

A big chunk of this country, for all intents and purposes, has gone permanently insane. They're a danger to themselves and others. Doesn't seem to be any fixing it anytime soon.

It pisses me off. I often feel like suburban wannabe tuff guys are trying to ape masculinity and they end up cosplaying as me. Do they feel like real big boys now?

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I know exactly what you mean and I figured that would be your answer. I just wanted it out there so people could see just how far out of normal this gun culture is. I carried a lot of guns in the military and while they were fun, having to use them outside of training was very not fun. I've also seen first-hand why having a gun in the house increases risk of death, specifically for veterans like me. I hate this idea of guns as a fashion accessory or as you say, extra manliness cosplay. If we're going to have them they need to be highly regulated tools. Not freely available toys.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I've also seen first-hand why having a gun in the house increases risk of death, specifically for veterans like me.

There's that whole healthcare, including mental healthcare, thing again. "Here kid, take this gun and go kill people for 'Murica, like protect our freedoms or whatever. What, you want healthcare now that you're back home and fucked up? Fuck you, go to the VA and take a number." That shit is fucked and I've hung with several fucked up veterans. Poor bastards didn't sign up for that shit.

I hope I never ever have to shoot at a person.

Gun culture shouldn't even be a thing like it is. At most, it should be like car culture or something.

I enjoy my guns but I also love a lot of my other tools. I've got a 1944 or earlier Atlas lathe I restored, a '98 Ford Ranger that I keep running tight. I'm currently working on a '69 Wheel Horse mini tractor. I've got a caliper from 1856. I've got an assortment of knives that I use for various things, most of them in carbon steel.

Gun culture should be a subset of tool culture, not this insane identity political religion shit that we have now.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago

I can only agree so hard.

[–] [email protected] -3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Americans in the past viewed guns as a tool? How ignorant are you? You mean the World Wars or the civil wars or the genocide of the natives? Which one we talkin about?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago

How ignorant are you?

That's a dick way to ask that question. How ignorant are you? Man killing guns were absolutely and still are viewed as tools, especially by the military.

I've got plenty of problems with the way I was raised, especially religion and politics. However, my parents and grandparents viewed guns as tools. Most people around me as a kid viewed them as tools. Concealed carry was almost unheard of and, for the most part, paranoid gun nuts were viewed with some distaste.

I was raised in rural Alabama, fwiw. I think the big change in attitude started happening with Ruby Ridge, Waco, and Columbine. There has absolutely been a cultural shift around guns and their fetishization.

As far as genocide and all the horrible things that have been done, duh. The focus was on the killing, not the tools used to do the job. You don't see people fetishizing Zyclon b, small pox, or famine to this degree.

You're just looking for something to get offended about.

But whatever, guess I'm just ignorant.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

I support these use cases, but I still disagree with open access. He shows his untrained friend, and now you're liable for their death. He becomes clinically depressed and now he has a method for suicide. It's just not worth the risk.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Why? He's not as big into hunting like me, but will kill varmints when necessary and has done so when I'm not home so his mother didn't have to.

I used to go hunting alone when I was his age.

He's mentally stable, well adjusted. He views guns as tools, as do I. He also has a rolling toolbox with $1k of tools in it. He put in so much work this summer that a full toolbox was part of how I rewarded him.

Now, if there was depression, threats, suicidal tendencies, etc.: totally different situation.

Guns aren't a masculinity fetish for us, they're just another tool. Guns and other power tools are fun to play with as long as you understand the safety and proper use of them.

I'm in the market for a chainsaw, I'll be getting chaps to go with it. He'll also be trained in the use of the chainsaw and have open access to it.

I've also been teaching him how to drive and he can't get a permit until he's 16.

He uses dangerous tools regularly. More and more, he does so without my direct supervision.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

A chainsaw's primary use is to cut through wood. A car's primary use is to travel from point A to B. A gun's primary use is to kill. Again, I very much support the training and use cases, but that's why I'm against open access without an issued permit.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

He also has open access to rat poison.

... that's why I'm against open access without an issued permit.

I'm guessing you're not from the US? Permits aren't issued for such a thing. As far as I know, permits are only issued for concealed carry outside of one's property. There are hunting licenses, but that that doesn't really factor in to gun access.

Given the smaller calibers and slow fire rates of the guns he has access to, the purpose of his guns is not man killing. They're for varmints and such.

I keep going back to the tool definition of guns. In the US, most people seem to no longer view guns as tools. They are scary or empowering magic objects that cause great fear or act as a male enhancement device depending on political views.

IDK, this society is sick this shooting is a symptom. People's knee jerk reactions to guns on both sides is a symptom. Kids get caught in the middle in the meat grinder.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I grew up in rural WV. We were given a Ruger 10/22 for our 10th birthday. Now it was in my father’s locked gun cabinet and I couldn’t just go get it when I wanted but it was mine. We’d take it plinking in the woods on the weekend sometimes. Well when he wasn’t shit faced drunk but I digress …

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

This situation you describe is something I don't see a major problem with. It being yours but under your parents control and secured away unless he's present with you sounds like a responsible approach that seems uncommon these days.

I dont have any children, but I still think it's the right and responsible thing to lock up my firearms.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Well I grew up not shooting up a school so it seems to have worked. It also helps I don’t have any mental health problems. Well unless you ask my wife.

But seriously guns are just tools. Granted tools meant to kill things but still just tools. My father also taught me to respect regular tools. You can seriously hurt someone with a circular saw it’s just much harder to do from a distance.

I don’t think you should let a toddler play with a hammer. You wait until they are old enough and strong enough and wise enough to weild it properly. Then you teach them how to use it for its purpose. And if it looks like they are going to have a psychotic break and murder people with it you take away the damn hammer and make sure they can’t just go get another hammer 🙄… it’s not really that hard.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

You can seriously hurt someone with a circular saw it’s just much harder to do from a distance.

I think a trebuchet would be the answer to that.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

One of these days I’m gonna build one in my back yard.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Are you planning on laying siege to your neighbours?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

Well not ALL of them 😎

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

You cant go on a shooting spree with a fucking hammer. Damn conversations with guns and Americans is ignorant af

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

It’s an analogy. And on a crowded subway I sorta could.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Why would you gift a gun to a kid even for hunting?

There's really no reason in any scenario

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

You'd "give" the gun to the kid in the sense that it's "their" gun to take hunting (and maintain, clean, etc), but it stays locked up in your safe, to which the kid has no access. But, in that case it would be a hunting rifle meant for beginners, maybe chambered in .22 or something like that. Usually, it's something that gets passed down from parents/grandparents if hunting runs in the family. Definitely not the "school-shooter-9000" that these people got for their kid.

[–] [email protected] -3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Some people see gun usage as a sporting activity. Go out and hit some targets, see how fast, or precise you can be, it's also fun to just blast things. I could easily see a family that shoots together gifting their child an AR pattern rifle after they got used to shooting mom's or dad's firearm. It gives them their own platform to customize and practice on, akin to a musical instrument.

That being said, I think it should take a lot more trust, awareness, and scrutiny from the parents, which was clearly missing in this case. This is more like giving the keys for your Dodge Pickup to your teen when they are absolutely hammered.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Comparing a gun to a musical instrument is peak American lmao

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 months ago

Tchaikovsky used a cannon as a musical instrument.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

If that's how you want to read in to it, sure. It less about a gun being as safe, or as socially acceptable, and more about the psychological satisfaction granted from striving to perfect your usage of a tool. I could make the same comparisons to carpentry, archery, cooking, go-karting, golfing...etc.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

In the context of child development though? Nah lol. This is a very unserious argument.

[–] [email protected] -2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Cool. I didn't say anything about child development. Nice looking scarecrow you got there.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

You directly compared owning, customizing, and shooting a gun to the way a child would develop the ability to play a musical instrument. On this article about a 14 year old child being gifted a gun.

[–] [email protected] -2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

You directly compared owning, customizing, and shooting a gun to the way a child would develop the ability to play a musical instrument.

Where?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

I could easily see a family that shoots together gifting their child an AR pattern rifle after they got used to shooting mom’s or dad’s firearm. It gives them their own platform to customize and practice on, akin to a musical instrument.

It's literally your comment.

[–] [email protected] -3 points 2 months ago

Hmmm. Maybe I need better glasses, but I sure as hell doesn't look like I said anything about child development there.

[–] [email protected] -4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

It makes no practical sense other than fueling this weird American obsession with guns.

i still don't understand this rhetoric, it's a gun, it's just a thing. It's not a fucking gay person in the 1950s they aren't going to give you aids like it's the 80s.

i mean sure guns are a little weird but like, so is collecting swords?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

You also have a right to collect Nazi memorabilia if you want, doesn't mean I'm not going to call you weird.

Do you think there might be anything different between collecting swords and collecting guns? Do you think most people who live in urban environments have a need for a semi-auto military style, magazine-fed rifle? What about multiple of them? What about machine guns?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 months ago

everything is weird at the end of the day if you think about it hard enough.

Do you think there might be anything different between collecting swords and collecting guns? Do you think most people who live in urban environments have a need for a semi-auto military style, magazine-fed rifle? What about multiple of them? What about machine guns?

i mean, you don't need either of them. You don't need anything really, this entire platform lemmy is useless if you think about it reductively enough.

i don't see anything inherently wrong with people owning guns, if people are allowed to own cars, knives, power tools, chemicals, gasoline, etc. I could keep going.

I mean i own a little finger puppet racoon that sits on my desk near my computer, his name is badge. That's pretty fucking weird.

as for machine guns, those are highly impractical, and very expensive. So i doubt those are ever going to be a significant problem.