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Yo, I'm turning in the divorce papers in a few weeks. After months of detangling finances and finding new places 🎉 Only took like 5 years of me giving it my all and my former spouse constantly telling me I wasn't doing enough for them. The years before all that were pretty great though
As a generally lazy person, I would suggest other lazy people look for similar minded matches. Don't look for a type A hyper organized person that'll pick up after you. My wife and I are lazy in different ways and make that work for us. Sorry you are going through this OP, I hope you find your match!
That’s… actually part of what did us in. She helped me improve myself, and I became a lot happier for it. I tried to return the favor… she was largely unreceptive, and several years of that led to immense frustration, followed by despair. It turned my trajectory right around. And one I had tasted the positive direction, I wanted it back, and I couldn’t settle for just trying to pull her through life.
Dude I'm in the detangling finance stage now.
I made like 3x what she did before we separated so quite literally everything has my name on it. Her lawyer gave an absurd number for the budget she would need me to cover for maintenance for the next 5 years and my lawyer said "ok prove the need." I don't think she'll be able to, but yikes, the thought of this having to go through court is frustrating
I'm fortunate enough that mine is very amicable. No lawyers, we're splitting everything 50/50, there are a few big things that would make it more complicated in a court but we're like "no you're the only one who uses that you get it" kind of stuff. We would have turned in the divorce papers a few weeks ago actually but they're on my insurance and I didn't want to kick them until their new job's insurance takes affect. Even with all this going for us the finances thing took so much work. Can't imagine what a contested detangling would be like. You've got this!