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How would you approach persuading a far extreme conservative toward center? What would you set as a realistic goal for a productive discourse? Would it be better attempt to do so in person rather than online?

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[–] OpenPassageways 43 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

I find that they have a lot of mistaken assumptions that are just lies repeated by Fox News. Sometimes they don't even watch Fox, they're just surrounded by people that do.

I like to focus on the economic issues, since there is hard math for the economy and I find it's not productive to argue with someone who is terrified that a trans person might be in the same bathroom as their child. I find these people literally start foaming at the mouth over that stuff and I just don't have the right math or words to cut through the rabies.

For example. I've heard Republican voters say that Republicans are better for the economy and reducing the national debt. Ask them which Republican presidents have left office with a reduced deficit?

Ask them if they know how much it added to the national debt when Reagan, Bush, and Trump passed tax cuts primarily for the rich and corporations.

Let them know that you're also concerned about the economy and the deficits, and show them a chart of federal spending and ask them whether they want to cut Social Security, Medicare, or defense spending to pay for more tax cuts for the rich and corporations.

Then ask them why DON'T the Republicans cut ANY of those things to pay for their tax cuts? Why do those deficits just get passed on to the next Democrat and blamed on them? How are Republicans going to reduce the deficit when it's not politically feasible with their base to cut ANY of those three things?

When it comes to immigration, ask them why they think immigrants are trying to get here in the first place. Show them Smedley Butler and talk about the war on drugs and ask them if they think the US is partially to blame for the violence in other countries that people are trying to escape from.

Also, show them the Maddox comic where he depicts immigrants "stealing our jobs". Ask them who is hiring these illegal immigrants and why? Ask them who the managers and owners of those companies vote for and why those people might have an incentive to preserve the "illegal" status of those employees.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 month ago

I've tried this. They don't listen; it just goes in one ear and out the other, and that's assuming you're on good terms with the person you're talking to. Otherwise, they just get very angry that you're attacking their worldview.

The long and short is that these people have been lied to virtually non-stop for the past 40 years, and the first step is depriving them of their disinformation stream. From there, it's a slow process that could take years, and that process is reset if they go back to listening to lies on Fox News or on Facebook/Twitter.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago

"Fuck off with your woke bullshit."