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Mildly Infuriating

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[–] [email protected] 53 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Report as spam and unsubscribe. If they send you more emails they are in violation of the law for the canned spam act.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That last part doesn't sound right but I wish it did.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Why doesn't it sound right? They are required by law to both have an unsubscribe button and to honor you opting out.

https://www.ftc.gov/business-guidance/resources/can-spam-act-compliance-guide-business

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Because it sounds like a stupid joke about a can of spam i assume

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

It can be both real and a stupid pun. 😀

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

they are an awesome company though

[–] [email protected] 49 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Once a company wouldn't stop emailing me despite unsubscribing. I sent them multiple emails with no response.

Then I heard that if enough people mark a sender as spam, Google starts automatically considering them spam for everyone. I emailed them to let them know this, and told them if they didn't remove me, I would mark them as spam which would affect them majorly.

They replied to my email within minutes and told me I was unsubscribed and would never receive another email from them lmao

[–] Ubermeisters 41 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Why would you issue a warning to a spammer instead of using the tools as intended, and just marking it as spam anyway? It clearly was. All you did here was pass the buck to someone else now.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I did both, but I wanted my email removed from their system. I hate my spam box being filled up if I can help it.

[–] Ubermeisters 5 points 1 year ago

Understandable. I really doubt emails actually get removed from systems they get sold at that point and kept in the database that's not actively used.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Some email systems now won't mark things as spam. They'll have a popup window asking if you want them to help you unsubscribe from the shit. I about blew it when I saw that.

[–] Ubermeisters 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Ive seen email systems with that, I've never seen an email system use that as a substitute for a Spam or junk flag however, I think maybe either you're confused or have a really odd mail client

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Gmail does it. Emails from mailing lists often have a header that specifies an email address you can email to unsubscribe (you just need to send an empty email with a subject of "unsubscribe" to the address). Gmail detects this header and asks you if you want to unsubscribe instead of marking as spam. If you do, it sends the unsubscribe email for you.

[–] Ubermeisters 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

It usually is a footer, not a header, in my personal experience, these companies don't want the word "unsibscribe" put in your head until they are done trying to reel you in with other things. It would be asinine to put it as a header.

Also, the unsibscribe feature in Gmail is not the same as reporting as junk/spam, which Gmail still allows as an option.

Unsubscribe option attempts to use the email address as you've already mentioned. The spam and junk flag automatically moves mail from those addresses into your junk folder. These are not the same things.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Sorry, I meant a header as in where the things like the subject line, servers it was sent via, etc. are stored. It's a part of the email that isn't user-visible. The unsubscribe email isn't visible to the user unless you view the raw source of the email, but email clients can use it.

I know marking as spam isn't the same as unsubscribing. Gmail is trying to suggest unsubscribing instead of marking as spam which is reasonable (why mark it as spam when you could just unsubscribe and never get it in the first place?)

[–] Ubermeisters 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You mark it as spam so that Google can add it to the metrics and stop allowing that account to spam everyone. If you just unsubscribe it only benefits you. If you flag it as spam it benefits everyone using the service.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Technically it's not considered spam if you opted in. Spam is unsolicited mail.

[–] Ubermeisters 1 points 1 year ago

Technically there's no authority to determine if you ever did "opt in", so that is a moot point. I get spam all the time claiming I opted in, when I know I've not. Nothing in an email is a guarantee, to include statements that you wanted this email or agreed to be contacted.

[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Sounds like a joke to me? I do not get the infuriating part.

[–] [email protected] 90 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Maybe it's personal preference, but I absolutely DESPISE companies who put this sort of cutesy, look how fun we are, but also very passive aggressive, bullshit on their communications.

This goes beyond mildly infuriating for me.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm with you on that one. It feels like old people trying to be hip and modern, it doesn't feel genuine.

I have also never understood why a company would want to actively pressure you into letting them send you things you don't want. Isn't it just wasted bandwidth to blast emails to people who won't ever see or want them? So bizarre.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

No, they figure eventually you’ll come around or be a future $ for them later.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It doesn't help that their copy reads like a 2000s era "TeH pEnGuIn oV dEwM" cringepost

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

With the date range on that copyright notice, it well could be from back then

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Holds up spork...

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

In this case, they're literally threatening that if you unsubscribe, you will receive harassing texts forever. That goes a large step further than "Jeff the unicorn will be sad."

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

I guess its based on "unicorns doesn't exist".

No one will send texts even if you unsubscribe. Only kidding

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Pretty bold for a company with an address in mailing list range.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Might be in a different (though closely related) category but this brings to mind confirmshaming.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This is definitely an example of that.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

It's the sort of thing where the term seems like a 90% fit but I don't know if there's one that's more specific. Something like a confirm-threat but a very minor one.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago

If someone pissed me off enough, I used to enter their email address every time a website wanted me to sign up for a newsletter. And if they asked me for my name while doing so, I'd enter a little message/insult for that person.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

That's not much of a threat. You could always block Jeff's number.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

Imagine if you broke up with someone or decided to stop being friend with them and they started acting like. Should be charged as stalking because "corporations are people too" so I can't see why legally that can't be the case.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

A true thigh-slapper, that.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

does involuntary opt-in count?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

It does, and under sane laws, it’s also illegal.