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[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I'm a 1, but i have to really concentrate. If I'm just thinking quickly then im around a 2 or 3. And yes, I do watch porn.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago

I stopped watching kids videos at the end of my kid life. Everything I watch is adult videos now: news, math, finances, cooking

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I don't get this, I'm none of these. I doubt I'm special.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Do you see mental images vividly or not?

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago (6 children)

People are not all one? Do yo really imagine grey potatoes when someone says apple.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I'm still coming to terms of people who don't think visually, there are people who think in grayscale??

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 months ago

Im a 1 and i like video and images. But i can also watch movies in my head of be fantasy banging people

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 months ago

1 and yes normally. But I have sometimes had extended spells of no internet or computer access in which case I've used my own mind.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

I guess I’m 1. No, I don’t watch β€œadult video”.

I already have a decent amount of masturbation addiction, and I don’t want to make it worse.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 months ago

I'm 1, and no, not really. But that's more for ethical reasons.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 months ago

Aphantasia is neat. I have to wonder how it affects the way we see the world. I'm 1. It doesn't really take concentration, which I see on here? it's not any harder than just a simple internal monologue anyways. But that's always in motion whether I want it or not so 🀷

That's including lights and reflections, but like that's constructed by me, and so I might imagine a light reflection incorrectly. again just like I might have a definition incorrect for internal monologue.

Anyways, sure. Imagining is part of it. Like placing yourself in the situation in front of you. I don't need adult videos to do so though. But like, having full HD imagination doesn't replace videos of any kind, or else I wouldn't watch YouTube either ya knoe

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

I think I am a 5. I feel like I am imagining an apple but then I am not sure whether I "see" the thing I am imagining or not. It's weird.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Yes but not every time. I can get there just by fantasizing but sometimes it's nice not to think about it. I also like written erotica more than most men seem to and I think it's because of how vividly I can visualize it.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago

Written erotica often gets me going better than videos because many videos are annoying and a turn off.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago

I'm a 1 and of course I do. Imagination is like playing with dolls. You already know everything going on. It's not the same as watching something made by other people.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago

If you think this is cool, how many inner dialogues do y'all have?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago

I'm like a 3-ish, and I do. I equally enjoy adult books though, if that helps or complicates whatever you're trying to suss out.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago (4 children)
  1. What do you mean by adult video? Like, porn?
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[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago

I guess I am 1, and I do watch Itchy and Scratchy sometimes 😎 (It's a very scary and therefore adult series)

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago

When I was young, my mind was super visual. People would talk, and there would be a stream of pictures and videos in my mind. Then I got really into reading and writing and, over the years, my mine got much less visual. I still can visualize things, but it's not the way my mind really works. It's closer to an audio book, but isn't really sound, either.

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