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On reddit I was a lurker that posted like once or twice a year, but ever since joining lemmy I've started posting multiple times a day.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago

Less people = less jerks = less fear when reading replies.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

I've posted more but I'm still mostly a lurker. I have enjoyed reading the actual discussion here. The comments at reddit got to be so formulaic and the same across posts, it's refreshing to see actual thought and effort go into making comments.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

lemmy made me feels like a little kid with new toy and i want to see this grows

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Definitely. I'm much more likely to comment when I'm not prepared for 70% of the readers to interpret what I write the worst possible way on purpose lol.

It'll be a scale thing, though. For one, most instances have a human-manned review process. And for two, we have low enough users that communities don't homogenise into echo chambers as easily. This will change as any particular instance (or Lemmy's federated instances) gain more users.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

This is my first comment on Lemmy! I like the smaller community. It seems more welcoming.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You have to add kindling to build the fire, and thats why I try not to only lurk here.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Maybe it's because in Lemmy you're not gonna be "late" compared to in Reddit

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Definitely. For one, lemmy is something I'd actually want to support, whereas I've always been ambivalent to reddit. But also, the user base on lemmy right now is probably closer to my interests than average.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm still deciding if I'll become a more active poster. I'd like to see this place grow.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This place reminds me of old school Reddit, before they started trying to turn it into a traditional social media platform. I love it!

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Exactly. It's janky and doesn't always work. But it's not riddled with ads and echo chambers. What a breath of fresh air.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I had a Reddit account ~10y ago. I was only a lurker in the days before the exodus. This feels like a real community.

Frist psot! /s

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

I'm very surprised by how much more I'm commenting, and I've even made a few posts!

I guess it comes with the feeling of exploring and establishing a new platform. Having this shared feeling towards reddit unites is, and this new platform gives us a new home.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I love that a service that isn't making a buck off of us gets levels of engagement that for-profit social networks would kill for.

This is happening because:

  • Novelty, because new is fun. This will go down over time.
  • The most passionate users are more likely to be early adopters. More casual users are coming.
  • Smaller network means your content is less likely to be covered before. This factor will go down over time.
  • Fediverse encourages multiple related communities, which means your specific contributions are more likely to be seen by other users.
  • Lack of bots/astroturfing leads to more positive interactions. Bots will likely increase over time.

Therefore, I expect engagement will go down over time, but I am hopeful it will reach a higher point of stability because the fediverse design seems better at getting more varied content seen by its users, and it makes it harder for a small group of people or posts to dominate the discussion space.

PS: Anybody know how to add a space after the last bullet in a list?

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I'm posting, but I have no idea what I'm doing. I don't think I 'get' Lemmy. Do all the dozens of instances have their own versions of communities and conversations? What's the connection? 🤷

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

Yes and no.

When I'm at my PC, yes I did become more active.

On mobile, I'm waiting for a better app like Relay and Sync to finally make Lemmy usable. Jerboa is barely-functional even with the latest update which finally added UI improvements, at the cost of making the app unusable with instances running on older versions of Lemmy and a slew of other glitches that make certain tabs unviewable.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I like to say things on the internet

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I became more active here because I don't feel like I'm contributing to a corporation. This is an open source software run by people who are just doing it because they like doing it.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

I'm feeling some of that early internet charm here. That might be part of why I'm a little more active. Still a lurker through and through.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

I’m really confident Lemmy can be the future, so I’m being as active as possible while it’s small.

To everyone reading this: if you see a post with 0 comments, even a few days old, leave one. You could spark a conversation.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It could be the "shiny new thing" syndrome, the majority of people here (me included) might be just riding the "high" of joining in. Gotta wait and see how we'll be in 3+ months

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I think a smaller community at the moment might have something to do with it too. On Reddit if you didn't catch a post early most comments were buried.

Right now it feels like you can actually have discussions again.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

I find myself more willing to comment/participate now. I'm not sure if it's because I feel that I am getting in from the "beginning" or if it's just because the community feels more "real", but there is definitely a difference from Reddit.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I feel the need to contribute so the community continues to thrive.

https://www.reactiongifs.us/im-doing-my-part-starship-troopers/

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

Yep. Haven't been so active on Reddit. It feels kinda great.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Been on the same boat, as for me been lurking for quite sometime mainly because too lazy to login and felt not worth to post/comment. I think the main difference here now is we felt obligated to post/comment because we want lemmy to succeed. Simply speaking I think our post/comment here value more than in reddit which will probably get buried down the thread.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

I’m more of a lurker as well, but I want lemmy to be successful so I’m trying to learn to be more active

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

It's nice because I always wondered what it was like being one of the early redditors (we've all seen those "when everything was better back in my days" comments), and it's as if I got chance at a magic Internet Reset button. Feeling that excitement that first got me into reddit, as I'm browsing and learning about the fediverse. Love it.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Trying. Lemmy needs content and commenters are a big part of Reddit.

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