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Toyosatomimi no Miko is a character in the Touhou Project series introduced in its 13th installment, Ten Desires.

Miko was once Prince Shoutoku, a Japanese leader in the 600s known for promoting Buddhism and streamlining the Japanese government. In the Touhou lore, she was visited by Taoist hermit Seiga Kaku, who had heard about Miko’s longing for immortality. Seiga introduced her to Taoism, but she rejected it as a religion unfit for placating an entire country. She was intrigued by its promise of immortality, however, and privately converted to it, advocating for Buddhism to keep Japan stable. After drinking an β€œimmortality elixir” (mercury sulfide), however, she was forced to let go of her body and become a supernatural hermit like Seiga, notably taking on the form of a woman, making her a canonically trans character (lets-fucking-go).

After convincing a hermit from a rival clan (Mononobe no Futo) to sleep without decaying, Miko followed in suit, waiting for a time where a Taoist Japan would revive her in search of guidance. However, Buddhist monks were able to keep her mausoleum sealed, and the legends surrounding her were slowly brushed off- which led to her transportation into Gensokyo, where the folklore of old is a reality of everyday life.

When she awoke in Gensokyo, it was right after Buddhist monk Byakuren Hijiri opened her own temple, however, leading to a surge of divine spirits across the realm, setting up the events of Ten Desires.

What look like headphones on her are canonically earmuffs- Shoutoku was allegedly able to discern between ten questions asked at once, an ability carried by Miko (although with her enhanced abilities, she can also analyze each person and determine their inner desires (thus the title of the game))- although it means her hearing is highly sensitive and has to be muffled to prevent pain.


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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago
[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago (6 children)

It's my birthday! Gonna spend the day doing my two favorite things; smoking and smashing white claws. The weather here is fantastic, nice and cool without a cloud in the sky. Time to lay in the grass and take a nap with my labradoodle child.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago

I know what I'm gonna do for my career after this year of kind of bumbling around in the literal first position I applied to and interviewed for. I'm definitely going to go for my Nurse Practitioner - likely focusing on family medicine/all ages rather than babies or adults only. I'm definitely planning on focusing on trans healthcare, probably more focus on trans youth but we'll see. Where I live, you generally need 4500 practice hours or 3 years of full-time clinical bedside experience before you can apply - year 1/1500 hours down. Also, it's kind of spooky that they let us prescribe with only 4500 hours of clinical practice and a handful of pathophys and pharma courses. There's another 1000+ advanced clinical hours just in the program, and you're supposed to have a supervising MD after graduating and wokring, but in terms of patient safety it's kinda... iffy. Just the reality of mid-levels, I guess, it does feel weird being handed that wide of a scope of practice to someone with that few of clinical hours.

There's an opening for an RN at an adult gender clinic in my organization but they want 1-4 years of adult mental health experience - I have 1 year of experience in pediatrics medsurg lol, there's been a number of kids with mental health admissions but that's maybe 5% of admissions. I think I have to change gears to adult mental health, which I LOATHE as an RN. You're expected to be nurse-cop in inpatient mental health it suuuucks, I hated telling people they weren't allowed out for a smoke, I hated feeling like I was manipulating people into taking their meds, for people with memory issues having to redirect them all the time "no you can't leave, come stay with me and we'll play cards" sucked because I was forever telling people they weren't free. The actual patients were fine, even the ones that had a history of violence or whatever, it was feeling like their jailer that sucked and in a lot of ways I fucking was. I identified way more with the patients than the staff, they called it "emotional transference" or something like that cause I yelled at the staff nurses when I was a student lol. Anyway, I really hate it, but if that's what I need...

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago (3 children)

I feel like I do nothing but post every last micro-epiphany I have here, but I have another one lmao.

I've realized I don't think I'm aromantic at all. When I ask myself if I want to be someone's boyfriend I have suchhhh a hard time answering.

"I mean what even is a romantic relationship? Maybe I'm confusing platonic and romantic thoughts. I've only ever had 4 crushes in my entire life and every single one of them I'm pretty sure I just liked platonically? Then why did it feel so special???"

And then I ask myself if I want to be someone's girlfriend.

"God yes. Full stop."

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago

Currently dreading having to teach tomorrow not gonna lie. I had a whole table get up and leave half way through class last week with no explanation. Basically my entire class failed the quiz last week because of their downright refusal to do anything I ask. I told them explicitly what I expect several times, and this really should have been a gimme quiz. I don't think I'm being unreasonable, but it feels like my entire class just hates everything about me and the class. Not sure how I'm to make it to the end of this semester with my sanity, especially since it's not even my class I'm teaching. I'm just doing what I'm told and getting so much shit for it. I've taught this class for 3 semesters now. This is the fourth. And I've never has this big an issue.

Also I get paid on a stipend that doesn't start until the end of September, so effectively I'm skipping a full month of being paid. Yippee

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago (1 children)

just sticking random shit into this meme format because funny

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (10 children)

Ever since coming to school I've challenged myself to come up with a fun new outfit every day, and most of them have had corresponding make-up looks. I'm taking more pictures of myself than I ever have before. A lot of that is because I'm planning to start a personal fashion blog, and I'm building a backlog of looks to post; but also, it's the fact that looking at myself is no longer a constant exercise of dysphoria, when I'm inhabiting the form of gender expression that I feel most happy in (aka my weird goth-ish punk-ish maximalist look.)

Unfortunately, I do find that make-up is kind of a key part of being able to enjoy the way my face looks in photos. I generally do very dramatic eye make-up; because I wear a mask whenever I'm out, I do not really do much related to my lips or cheeks. (I tried to do some lips the other day and immediately wiped it off, I hated it lol.) I feel like, weirdly enough, my eye make-up has the effect de-emphasizing the femininity of my face. Tbh I do not like this new shift in my relationship with make-up; I started using make-up in 2022 as a form of queer self-expression and I've always tried to consciously stay away from using it as a tool to make myself look "better".

I'm wondering (hoping) that once I start T I will feel more comfortable in my skin, and I will no longer need to get all dressed up to feel gender euphoria. Of course I think I will always love getting dressed in elaborate weird outfits, but it would be nice to also feel euphoric when I'm in my plain grey sweatpants and sleep shirt.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago (4 children)

I might be sick with covid. Guess it was just a matter of time before it got to me as well. I had so much stuff I wanted to get done this week. Oh well...

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago

I feel like my boobs are just stuck in an awkward middle place where they would be more aesthetically pleasing both if they were smaller and bigger.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Big anxious about this week. Not like in a something bad is gonna happen, just meeting new people and my brain is always like "you already know people, why do you need to know more? this is not okay"

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Today was such a wonderful day y'all. Zero complaints. I'm feeling real good

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago

i want to see my wife

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Trying to search up info on adhd medication, and all the articles are either written for parents of adhd kids, or they refer to adhd as primarily being something kids and teens struggle with. And why are people still claiming that it's possible to outgrow a mental disorder? Wish it worked like that, would make my life a whole lot easier if my adhd just magically went away as I got older

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I think new yorkers should just start doing the accent again. like you can just fake it until it becomes natural, you can just do that

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (6 children)

Not to bring down the mega, but you guys ever wake up with the feeling that you never want to be seen or heard again?

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (8 children)

Figuring stuff out

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So this is me, I do not want to ever lose my hair, I've had it long for a long time and I enjoy how feminine it makes me feel me even if I otherwise look and feel anything but. I just wanna be pretty but I'm so scared but also kinda numb? Even though I think most of the people in my life would be accepting. I don't really have anyone to talk to about it so advice or nice emojis are welcome


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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago

Being at home with my parents and seeing the propaganda that passes as β€˜news’ in this country makes my blood boil. Pro Israel, pro cop, anti labor pull yourself up by your bootstraps nonsense. God bless our troops. freedom-and-democracy

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (2 children)

"why do you want to join us? please say in your own words."

i'm applying to wash dishes, fuck off with this shit

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago

"ever since I was a child, I was drawn to the bright sheen of a clean dish"

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Sometimes I’ll be like β€œdo I even like women? I don’t think so lea-think” and then I’ll see a futch girl and I’ll be like β€œoh yeah crush”

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Labor Day but the posters still have to work.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (16 children)

Voice training, dysphoria, sadnessWang to do voice training because I dislike the way it sounds, but I just struggle getting into it. Like if I just plan to watch a video on it I stress the whole day before hand, and when I go to watch the video I just break down before clicking on it. I've tried trying to just record my voice but doing that is a struggle, and listening to it also makes me break down. Like I want the end goal of having a different voice, as hearing my voice as it currently is distressesd me, but I just don't know if that can happen because of how much of a struggle it is for me.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Something has shifted today. I’m going to make it.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (10 children)

🚨⚠️BREAKING⚠️🚨

Democratic Kittens Republic of My House receives diplomatic delegation from Raccoon Federation, renews ties in cooperative development in hole digging

comrade-raccoonsolidaritychairman-meow

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Partner and I decided to breakup but remain friends since LDR was becoming difficult.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

egghead I am swiftly moving toward a solution which pleases nobody!

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (11 children)

About 3 weeks after my second laser session, and my beard definitely isn't growing in the same way. There are some empty patches.

Idk, kinda scary, ngl folks :/

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (14 children)

bought a cute skirt and I'm excited for it to arrive

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (5 children)

I guess i really am just disposable kitty-cri-texas

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I wanted to go to a local queer meetup today, but my social anxiety and low self esteem stopped me. Idk how I'm ever gonna make new friends madeline-sadeline

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (6 children)

A major pet peeve I have in fiction is when super smart characters can just predict the future in detail, especially when it relies on correctly guessing complete stranger's irrational choices. Like, that's just not how human intellect works?

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I felt butterflies for the first time in over a decade today

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago

news reporter: how many ingrown hairs do you have right now?

me: biden-alert at least 3

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago
[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (4 children)

Unbothered. Moisturised. Happy. In my lane. Focused. Flourishing.

(Gorging myself on untold quantities of quality gay slop feral-hog )

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