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Toyosatomimi no Miko is a character in the Touhou Project series introduced in its 13th installment, Ten Desires.

Miko was once Prince Shoutoku, a Japanese leader in the 600s known for promoting Buddhism and streamlining the Japanese government. In the Touhou lore, she was visited by Taoist hermit Seiga Kaku, who had heard about Miko’s longing for immortality. Seiga introduced her to Taoism, but she rejected it as a religion unfit for placating an entire country. She was intrigued by its promise of immortality, however, and privately converted to it, advocating for Buddhism to keep Japan stable. After drinking an β€œimmortality elixir” (mercury sulfide), however, she was forced to let go of her body and become a supernatural hermit like Seiga, notably taking on the form of a woman, making her a canonically trans character (lets-fucking-go).

After convincing a hermit from a rival clan (Mononobe no Futo) to sleep without decaying, Miko followed in suit, waiting for a time where a Taoist Japan would revive her in search of guidance. However, Buddhist monks were able to keep her mausoleum sealed, and the legends surrounding her were slowly brushed off- which led to her transportation into Gensokyo, where the folklore of old is a reality of everyday life.

When she awoke in Gensokyo, it was right after Buddhist monk Byakuren Hijiri opened her own temple, however, leading to a surge of divine spirits across the realm, setting up the events of Ten Desires.

What look like headphones on her are canonically earmuffs- Shoutoku was allegedly able to discern between ten questions asked at once, an ability carried by Miko (although with her enhanced abilities, she can also analyze each person and determine their inner desires (thus the title of the game))- although it means her hearing is highly sensitive and has to be muffled to prevent pain.


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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

CW: Alcoholism, dysphoria posting

I'm doing pretty fine on booze right now. I've let myself have a few guinnesses off the tap after work because they're not good for getting drunk off of. I'm not using it to hide from my feelings of dysphoria or a shitty life. To be more comfortable with the effects of aging, growing more facial hair and the like. If I hadn't used alcohol to cover up those feelings, I would have gone through the efforts to be on hormones years ago. I was a late bloomer physically, I still had time to stop a lot of first puberty. Luckily anti-psychotics have also slowed this process down, otherwise I'd be in much worse shape.

Now I'm sober and just beating myself up for not doing it sooner. I had other circumstances other than my alcoholism that made the medical decision harder (shitty ex, inconsistent income due to shitty ex, ect.) but alcohol kept me complacent in all of those and kept me from feeling the pressure I needed to get fix them. I'm excited to be starting DIY soon (something my ex never would have let me do) and I think it'll really improve my outlook on things

The cure to that dysphoria has been this. I've also recently met a transfemme friend who is pretty old. She didn't start transitioning until she was in her 40s and she looks fantastic. There's part of me that's scared that I'm starting estrogen too late and she's really proving to me that there is no such thing as too late. It made me realize how few old trans people I had met or even seen. She's a lib, but she's become a really great friend over the past month.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I felt butterflies for the first time in over a decade today

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (6 children)

It's time to take the nail polish off :cri: it was a good vibe, but now we gotta be a girl with plain nails.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (4 children)

Is it normal to have people forget that you came out to them?

I always thought that coming out would yield more openness, like, "I want you to know about me, and I want to know about you".

I have no people I talk to regularly, the only former classmates have pretty much stopped reaching out after I came out to them. I'm scared to text anybody first but would happily respond if someone messaged me, like, damn. Like, how would I pick someone and what would I say to them? I need to plan what to say

I'm having fun reading about Lost Child Syndrome and realizing I'm completely fffffucked and may never have friends. Like, I don't think people think about friends the way that I do. You have to be stressed and work to make your friends like you. Anything easier than that is literal magic. It's not fun. Who said having friends is fun?

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (10 children)

🚨⚠️BREAKING⚠️🚨

Democratic Kittens Republic of My House receives diplomatic delegation from Raccoon Federation, renews ties in cooperative development in hole digging

comrade-raccoonsolidaritychairman-meow

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (4 children)

My tummy and thighs are very squishable btw just so yall know

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (4 children)

My friend is going to help me call the student health center to set up an HRT appointment tomorrow. It's setting in that it's finally happening, I'm finally doing this. I can't help but wonder if the 4 year wait that's led up to this was made this lengthy because I was dealing with so much dissociation that I didn't realize was dissociation. I think I'm learning to reinhabit my brain.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (29 children)

music monday! whatcha listening to? here's my collage btw (nsfw for titty in album cover)

edit: also here's a link to a 20x20 of my most listened albums of all time. make fun of me for it i guess

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (8 children)

ah fine, fuck it. if weight can't cycle down, then it's time to cycle it up. I can feel my tits crying out for something to build with and my ass could use more padding so fuck it. Had a big fuckin milkshake for lunch about it

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

egghead I am swiftly moving toward a solution which pleases nobody!

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (2 children)

The problem with buying clothes is it makes you want to buy even more clothes ohnoes

At least I have som cute jeans on the way, praying they fit well

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (3 children)

I’ve resorted to presenting feminine again and I’m not really a fan of it but at the same time what else can I do I’ve been off testosterone for a minute and my fat has started to redistribute itself again Need to get back on it real soon

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (5 children)

I guess i really am just disposable kitty-cri-texas

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (11 children)

About 3 weeks after my second laser session, and my beard definitely isn't growing in the same way. There are some empty patches.

Idk, kinda scary, ngl folks :/

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Thinking about shaving my arms. I wonder if they'd be smooth 🫒

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (20 children)

I love having the desire to be sociable and meet tons of new people while simulatneously being freaked out and overwhelmed by meeting new people. I love the novelty and really do well in novel situations, but i have such little capacity for it; a week or two of that and I need 6-8 months of not talking to anyone cri

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (6 children)

I'm glad we started getting little paragraphs for the trans mega text like the other megas get. I like when people share their passions. never really gotten into Touhou but, WIIHAPPYFEW, thank you for that little character bio :)

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

I look so fucking good today. I'm really proud of my make-up β€” I tried a new-wave-ish style of dramatic eye makeup using red eyeshadow. I'm also wearing an outfit that I've had planned out in my head for the past week β€” it's a frilly white shirt with bright red pants. First day of classes and I'm a bit nervous but also excited!

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago

Why do i feel terrible? Oh yeah, i ate 1/4 of a cake and fell asleep. Groggy. Need water. Feeling very president-parrot-naked

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Partner and I decided to breakup but remain friends since LDR was becoming difficult.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Sometimes I’ll be like β€œdo I even like women? I don’t think so lea-think” and then I’ll see a futch girl and I’ll be like β€œoh yeah crush”

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago (3 children)

i’ve sort of been realizing that i’m not exactly agender. i’ve been presenting as my AGAB and it feels a little miserable and like a performance and im starting to feel like id be much happier presenting with more of a masculine lean than feminine. thonk-trans

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago (17 children)

>post about fruity lil twine game

>realise Famous Gayhaven Enjoyer is fr touching grass.

> desolate

NO COME BACK PLEASE asagiri who else will I be annoying at?!

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago (7 children)

it's going to be 25c tomorrow, chat! lea-sweat

why cant the autumn revolution just win??? please, my people are suffering under the Sun Regime negative

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago (4 children)

tfw most of my friends are +5 or 6 hours ahead of me. I wish it was easier and took less time to move countries

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

me moping about the difficulties of coming out to family, so CW for that if you're not in the right headspace I guessThe more I think about how I'm going to come out to my parents, the more I'm sure I really am trans, but the less I think I'll be able to do it sadness

They're US republicans, so they've been drinking the kool aid about "woke gender marxists", so I don't think coming out and saying I'm going to start dressing like a girl and acting more feminine just because I "feel like it" is going to work, even if I assure them that I'm not considering anything medical yet, and probably won't for several months at least (I want to get to a point where I've socially transitioned and am happy with it first)

So instead I thought about approaching it by explaining gender dysphoria, and gender roles, and performance and all that, but I feel like I would just be infodumping and they wouldn't pick up on it quickly enough to understand. How do you get anyone who hasn't experienced gender dysphoria to understand it anyways?

I know them well enough to know that at best, they'll probably just brush it off in the passive aggressive way they do when I make a decision that doesn't align with what they want for me. They've done it for less serious things. "Well you're an adult now, it's time you learned from your own mistakes". But if they don't receive it well, I don't know how they're going to react to it in the long run, which worries me.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)

intentionally gaining weight after starting E and feeling your ass get thiccer in real time. There's no better feeling on earth

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago

I really cannot believe that like, a guy made up binary genders a thousand or a few thousand years ago, and that shit's still around

leslie-feinberg

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago

Been feeling a lot better today, had a moment of weakness and made my favorite dish, kung pao mushrooms since I found half a pound of shrooms for like 1.39 and a can of baby corn/watercress for 79 cents and I had squash and celery ready to go. This is what I'll be eating for the week, not the healthiest thing, but so delicious and not too pricey.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago (3 children)

I'm not MtF I'm MtGG (male to goofy goober)

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Thinking about getting my first tattoo... I have had this idea for what I want for years now (a silly dark souls 2 message saying "Don't give up, skeleton!" [The comma is important!!] below a skeleton resting against a wall with its mouth agape in a comical way, lol) but Im still afraid I'm gunna instantly regret it cuz it's a stupid idea... XD

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago

gn transgenders! imma try to break the stereotype and get good eepy

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (5 children)

Walking around the campus reading theory in my elaborate outfits to advertise the fact that not all MLs are cis men with no style.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago (3 children)

google maps diverted me into a 45 minute long queue in order to avoid probably two minutes of traffic at a junction. no worries mate, didn't want to make my hair appointment anyway. would much rather sit in my car

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago

Just found out an appointment I thought was tomorrow is actually next saturday bocchi-party

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