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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (5 children)

I have a standing wager with my friends that there has never been a filmed or written sex scene that needed to be included in the media. Talk about it, allude to it, show the ramifications of it, but there has never been one that needed to be there. Sex scenes are there to sell TnA, not to move the plot forward.

For an example of a close call. In A History of Violence, Viggo rapes his wife. This is about as close as you could come to a needed scene because it shows a wild character development, but if you were to cut the scene out entirely, you'd still get all of the character development that he gets from the scene, anyway, rendering it useless.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)

A Boomer here, and I'm finding these comments to be very interesting--mostly because I'm realizing I agree in many cases! Far from prudish, just last night I fast-forwarded past the sex scenes in the first episode of a new streamer series. "Yeah, yeah, I get it...you're hot for each other. Can we move it along, please?"

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (4 children)

It's just gen z being pragmatic. We don't need sex in movies cuz we have unlimited better porn.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I don't watch nothing without sex scenes

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I guess there's not many grammar lessons with sex scenes in theme.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I guess ~~there's not~~ there aren't many grammar lessons with sex scenes in ~~theme~~ them.

FTFY

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

I'm the gen that saw couples having sex butt-naked on the kitchen counter in a random movie at 3-4 in the afternoon. And all i remember now of that movie is that i don't like seeing guys butts.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Sounds good to me and I'm a couple letters behind Gen Z. Either the scenes don't do anything for me, in which case they're boring, or they do something for me, in which case...what do I do when it's over? Do I pause and go take care of it, or sit there all hot and bothered while somebody talks about business stuff or getting the bad guys or whatever? Either way it's annoying. And I'm no prude, it's just, if I want to see sex I'll just watch porn. But I'm not watching porn, I'm trying to watch a story. IDK. It's like if the mall decided every store needed a stripper pole.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (3 children)

A study of only 1500 teens still seem pretty small to me

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I can get behind this. I can't even remember the last time I saw a sex scene in a movie that needed to be there - it just makes for an awkward moment.

If I wanted to see a sex scene, I'd just watch porn, not a movie where other stuff is meant to be happening.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I think the one in Blade Runner 2049 did a lot for the character of Joi in particular. But it's about the only example I can think of just now

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I'm with Gen Z on this. Hell, I've have been complaining about this since I was a kid in the 80s. You do not need every damn relationship to be a romance. People can be friends and acquaintances and frienemies and enemies and everything in-between without there being romance or sex.

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