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[–] [email protected] 0 points 3 years ago* (last edited 3 years ago) (1 children)

not dating post-op trans women? sure, that's pretty shitty

but not dating pre-op/non-op trans women isn't transphobia, you can't pick your sexuality

i hate this struggle session so much

[–] [email protected] 0 points 3 years ago (1 children)

I don’t think genitals were mentioned though?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 3 years ago (1 children)

that's literally what everyone is talking about here in the comments rn

calling someone transphobic because they don't want to date someone with genitals they're not attracted to is idiotic as fuck and makes us look like lunatics, it's not "preference", it's sexuality and it's fixed

yes there's straight men who are still attracted to women if they have a penis but that's not the case for most

[–] [email protected] 0 points 3 years ago (1 children)

That’s a different argument and I agree with that. Some people like dick and can’t stand pussy others see it the other way around. I believe what OP is referring to is simply taking into account could you date a trans person if they fit every other standard you have, in which case it’s probably transphobic to say no to.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 years ago

in a case like that yea i would agree with it being transphobic

i just seriously hate the opinion that genitalia is just a "preference", i feel like it's basically like a woke version of "being gay is a choice" and it makes me uncomfortable as fuck