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Give what you can afford. That varies from person to person, and timeframe, but if you truly have nothing to give, then you have nothing to give without impacting your own existance. Plus if you're a person living off of people's kindness and get mad when people have nothing, then they aren't the problem
But I say to myself, if I ever give a little, it's not gonna have much material impact on their life. i.e., I am not easing their misery for more than an hour! Also, there are many of them, how will I choose whom to give and whom not to? edit: But it's gonna take away stuff from me, I don't spend a rupee when I don't have to.
Is give when you feel like it and when you can (I think you would say yes to this) a good idea?
Easing someone's misery for an hour IS EASING SOMEONE'S MISERY.
And maybe the physical thing you provide to that person may only last for an hour, but the memory of something a kind person did for them will (hopefully) persist as well
I don't know if you have been in India but I have. Begging has become a profession there. So most likely they won't recognize individual donors. Also what OP mentioned is a real problem. Easily you'll meet more than 20 homeless people at once around you in any big railway station.
From what I understand, shitty politics and rising inequality is the reason behind this.
You are right! I must not think like that.