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Following the spirit of spreading across the Fediverse (and because my main instance is down so many times, because diverse reasons) I'm intrigued about the joining instance process, because I honestly don't know what criteria to have in order to join another one if I ever want to do it.

That made me curious of how you decided to join?

I firstly join to lemmy.fmhy.ml thanks to Spez and a Reddit post from FMHY subreddit, then the tragedy occurred, then I joined to lemmy.world which is/was my main one because I pictured it like a good home, then lemmy.fmhy.net revived and I am with them too, but seems like they are in a bit of trouble with the server, finally now I am in lemm.ee, but only because I just wanted another backup, not because I searched for it especially (also it was mentioned in a comment about smaller instances and one user from here throw a joke to not join here because it sucks so that way the server would be more stable, so yeah, I joined).

To be clear I am not in search for yet another instance (that sounds like a good instance name to be fair), I just want to know how the deciding process is for you, is it just random? Is it because of personal tastes?

I couldn't care less about NSFW stuff, I don't search for it specifically, but my day won't be ruined if I see a tit.

I like gaming, tech, Linux, SBC gaming, emulation, macOS, Android stuff etc (yeah how original) should I look for an instance dedicated to that if I ever want to join yet another one? Because I see topics like this in almost any instance.

I read you lemmings!

EDIT: BTW the migration process has been easier for me thanks to LASIM, so I wouldn't be scared if I ever want/have to migrate again.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Because I enjoy FMHY resources, it was my primary instance; if it returns without trouble I will remain there. I'm currently at kbin.social since I wanted to try kbin.

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Kinda picked it at random when scrolling through my choices.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago
[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

I liked the name #kbin more than #lemmy, and the integration of #microblogging is a feature I appreciate. IME, lemmy also tends to attract more memes and shitposts, which generally turn me off.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I had an account before I even knew there were many instances. I thought it was just a website.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I was on lemmy.ml at the start of the blackout, but it kept crashing, then went to shit just works because they seemed pretty loose and I didn't want my feed censored like a lot of other instances were on about.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I joined my instance because it's smaller. As a result everything seems a lot more responsive.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I just started using kbin.social after not really feeling satisfied with Mastodon personally, wanting something more topical like Lemmy, but I still wanted some Mastodon compatibility due to most of my mutuals on the Fediverse using Mastodon. Landed myself here, so far so good!

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

We were at a coffee shop. Her names tiff my names biff. We both ordered mocha chapaccino Expresso double almond milk lattes... Both us us grabbed for the same cup when they called our name...

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

because I made it >:) muahaha

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I'm on Lemmy.world. I just picked it because it was one of the biggest, but I haven't been entirely happy with it.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I joined lemmy.world because it sounded nice. Was easy to remember.

I really had no reason to choose specific one, so why not this one?

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[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

At the time (which was over a year ago ๐Ÿ‘ต) it was the only Lemmy instance that didn't have a verification process and I was impatient but I stayed for the community and really like it here!

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

After lemmy.fhmy.ml was dead, I was searching for an instance that matches my taste and found this one. Also, admin posts a lot to make the communities in the instance not to become dead, so there's kudos to them for that too.

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