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[–] [email protected] 41 points 4 weeks ago

Everything having to turn a profit. We can't just do things anymore. Also, our society of inconvenience that it leads to.

[–] [email protected] 39 points 4 weeks ago

Trump's popularity

[–] [email protected] 37 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

US politics. It all just sucks. I'd rather not live in interesting times

[–] [email protected] 13 points 4 weeks ago

I can kinda relate. But I'd rather call them 'exhausting times.'

This old meme resonated with me back then... and it still does.

[–] [email protected] 30 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)
  • World leaders finding it okay that thousands of people are ~~dying~~ being murdered (as if it is a video game for them).
  • Everything gets more and more expensive.
  • My country just gave 4B to another country but there are so many issues. They want to give students “long study fines” & People can’t pay well for their groceries.
  • The overall hate, racism and fascism.

Could make a whole longer list.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 weeks ago

All that space is there for a reason. Use it!

[–] [email protected] 17 points 4 weeks ago
[–] [email protected] 16 points 4 weeks ago

Having to pay for EVERYTHING! Want to not live outside? Gotta pay rent. Want water? Gotta pay the water company. Want to eat? Gotta buy food. Want to go somewhere? Got to pay for vehicle insurance.

I keep telling my friend that we're heading to the Cyberpunk society without the cool cybernetics. Hell, Nestle tried to privatise water which FALLS FROM THE SKY.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)

Picking up slack for corporations.

Be a Karen. Fuck them.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

Oh bitch of old. Tell me the ways that it must be told. Instill in me the ways of no fucks to give, as you see, we walk like aimlessly ducks with a dull shiv. Ducks without a pond, oh please of please, don't let me live like a 'dumb blonde' without any wings. Teach me the ways to turn my sass to 11, and guide me now towards Sassy Sass Heaven.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 weeks ago

What are you referring to?

[–] [email protected] 15 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

*gestures vaguely at the world in general*

[–] [email protected] 13 points 4 weeks ago

Capitalist society

[–] [email protected] 12 points 4 weeks ago

Hemorrhoids.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)

At this point, presently? People acting like they are experts on Marxism without ever delving into Marxist theory

[–] [email protected] 12 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

At this point, presently? People ~~acting like they are experts on Marxism without ever delving into Marxist theory~~

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 weeks ago

People are alright, in general. I'm not a misanthrope.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Who are the major experts on Marxism currently?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 weeks ago

What do you mean? Marxist scholars? The best are members of Communist parties.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 weeks ago

The fucking bitches at my work who are so dumb that they don't even know what they don't know and too narcissistic to ask, and create unsafe situations for staff and kids which makes teachers quit and destroys any chance for education for students.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 weeks ago

Subscription pricing for almost everything. I had a pest control company try to sell me one where i pay every month for 4 quarterly treatments. Why would anyone think this is a good idea?

[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

The relentless march to the bottom line. The ever worsening quality of products and services, at the same time that sizes are reduced, and prices are raised. The fact that people don't matter beyond their ability to be squeezed for their last penny.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 weeks ago

And ths fact that mosr people don't seem to care

[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 weeks ago

Ads. Subscription serfdom. We don't own much anymore.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 weeks ago

Nations. As in centralized hierarchical states. Brutal killing machines all. It's been what maybe 4-8k years of their bullshit and I for one am fucking sick of it.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 weeks ago

Scam attempts. This may be better elsewhere but in the U.S., every phone call I get is either a scam attempt or my mom (who is old enough that I worry about her getting elder scammed like when my grandma paid a stupid amount for silver coins).

I’ve never gotten scammed (except small stuff like carnival games or whatever) but if I were president I’d make ending scams — even false advertising ones — my top priority. You’ll be able to pick up a call from and unknown number after my first 100 days: that’s my promise to the people of America.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 weeks ago

Conservatives.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 weeks ago

I could write a novel about it but leave it with:
Peoples apathy and singlemindedness

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 weeks ago

Trump media infatuation.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 weeks ago
[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Trying to meet users where they are over where you want them to be. For free software or creative commons endeavors, if a proprietary collaboration products (especially if exclusively) like Microsoft GitHub or Discord or Slack or Figma is

  • locking issues behind their account + ToS
  • ban projects that undermine capital interest (Yuzu, youtube-dl, third-party clients flagged as malicious, constantly breaking API to make building upon difficult)
  • blocks a swatch of potential users for US sancations or a local regime
  • happily hands off data to feds
  • collects gobs of data to either sell and/or use to train AI models they will sell back to us
  • Requires userStyles, userScript, filter lists to scrub the ads & social media features to have a worthwhile experience (kids call these “mods” on Discord for some reason)
  • uses social media hook tactics to get you to spend more time on the platform
  • have bloated clients that tear into your RAM

When there are free software alternatives that fit the bill (& crucially aren’t resource hogs hurting feasibility) or even non-profits running competing so you don’t need to pay, reach for these options. These projects might be less polished, but since they aren’t fighting to profit propped up by investors, this is to be expected? By getting curious users in the space they will report bugs & contribute upstream instead of building “mods” to correct the predatory option. If you have witnessed even one “enshittification” instance, you know this is inevitable so don’t waste your effort propping these up. Choose tools/services that align with your principles instead handwaving them as unimportant—or assuming users are too inept to learn something new. But also, there is a block of folks that are under respresented that already do know how to operate these platforms that are possibly disinfranchized or blocked that you haven’t even accounted for by choosing the corporate option.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

I'm pretty sure I've signed my rights away to ever sue a company just to be a good user and report a bug.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 weeks ago

Enshitification

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 weeks ago

Every goddamn thing wrapped in plastic that prevents crumbs from falling out.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 weeks ago

Lawyers and politicians.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 weeks ago

The car behind me or across the intersection's headlights blinding me making it hard to see the road and also potentially causing a migraine. Ban them from the streets!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 weeks ago
[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 weeks ago

Non-YKK zips.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 weeks ago

The caps on bottles that are made to stay on the bottle, i always pull that shit off whilst getting slighty enraged

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 weeks ago

Cars. Need I say more?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Fairly often I get this feeling like everyone around me's making things difficult for me.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 weeks ago
[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 weeks ago

The phrase "iykyk" (if you know you know). People will just throw it up on things with zero context. It's gatekeeping.

I'm not referring to when people explain something and then say iykyk at the end. It's only when they say it with zero context or explanation.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 weeks ago

Idiotic opinions, and the people who loudly and enthusiastically share them.

Edit: I am definitely including myself lol

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 weeks ago

Vocal people who only see the world through the lens of politics. I get that it's important, but it's not the only important thing.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

The Swiss. I've had enough of them for a lifetime.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

I live in the US, so I don't know much of what the Swiss have been up to.

Can you fill me in as to what bothers you the most that the Swiss are doing?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 weeks ago

They just don't know how to act in restaurants and I'm sick of it!