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I hadn't cried in 7 years and decided to do some emotional exercises to make myself cry. So I managed to cry about 4 months ago, haven't been able to since even with my grandmothers death. Might start trying again.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

About a week ago when I got a large 2nd degree burn at work

[–] BumpingFuglies 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yesterday, while watching Beastars on Netflix, I shed some tears. Show's surprisingly good, despite its furry leanings.

But the last time I sobbed was during the finale of the Last of Us show. As a dad, that penultimate scene wrecked me emotionally.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

When I watched "The Whale" at the movie theater. Half of the room was crying at the end.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Do you recommend it? Not familiar really

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Absolutely! It's a really good movie.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

When I moved to my current place of residence. It also coincided with a death, so it was a double whammy.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

About 1.5 years ago, when my cat died.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

I get teary almost every day - not from sadness, but from watching my kids have a positive experience or trying my best to tell them I love them.

But sort of real, proper crying was at my mom’s funeral, before, during and after. That was three years ago.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

3 days ago. It was the last day with my girlfriend until the Christmas period. I saw in my watch there was only 15 minutes before she needed to go. Something happened in my brain

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Happy cry: I watched Coda for the second time.

Sad cry: when I put my dog down.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

This morning. I cry pretty regularly though. It's a good way to keep myself in touch with myself.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

No tears for a long ass time but I basically had a no-tear cry when I realized I was struggling so hard to keep up with cleaning, cooking and excercise mentally which is literally what nearly all adults do and many do it on autopilot. Made me feel like such a child.

I was smart enough to recognize that was just imposter syndrome by the next day but it hit hard at the time

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

A coworker asked me if i was ok and i just broke down hyperventilatin and sobbing

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I teared up a little yesterday watching Elemental for the first time. Last time I full on cried was when I watched Coco with my daughter.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Real crying? 7 years ago...

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (3 children)

About 3 years ago, I was in hospital, just diagnosed with incurable cancer.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Whenever I last rewatched ATLA.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

At the last movie probably haha

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

7 years ago, before the day my first dog was euthanized at the vet.

Either I've had it alright so far or my medication is keeping it in at this point...

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Last week. Why? "You bow to no one"

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Last Monday driving to work after filing divorce papers for court date with my ex-wife.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Last week listening to one life by the last emperor

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

30 years ago when I was 15 or so. From time to time it worries me a bit.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Father's Day a couple weeks ago (in Australia). Something my 8yo daughter wrote in my card, reminded me of how my own dad isn't with me any more, and wasn't around to see me become a dad. Happens most Father's Days, to be honest.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I do grief work daily. I don’t cry often but I’m grateful when I do. It means that I’m healing.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I cry almost every day. Two kids under two can be exhausting sometimes, and I have a lot of stress and anxiety. They are awesome, I just can't handle it all the time. I'm lucky enough to have an awesome wife who's very supportive, so we'll get through it!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Just a couple days ago, thinking about my cat that I had to put down ~6 months ago. He was sick and in pain but I'm still sad about it.

I don't think you need to push yourself to cry. Everyone processes their emotions differently. For a long time I also didn't cry much/at all. I was very guarded about my emotions. Between getting older and my wife, whom I can be completely open with, I have gotten more emotional as I have gotten older.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Don't really remember

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