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When I first found out it was an interesting concept that I was pretty neutral on but the more I engage/lurk with the community the more I enjoy it.

I generally don't post/comment much on Reddit because I tend to be extremely sincere and that's not always well received. Usually I don't get much hate, but what I do get is a lot of non-interaction mixed with downvotes. And it's just really discouraging when I'm just trying to share my thoughts.

But having no downvotes here is so nice because I'm not afraid that I'm going to get silenced into oblivion. Either people will actually engage with me (and maybe disagree, but in a meaningful way), or they'll move on and not randomly share their disdain via downvoting.

It's such a small change but makes a big difference. I bet a lot of people feel the same as me - it's more comfortable to engage here.

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I’ve already seen (and reported) some anti-trans bigotry on here, but it had more upvotes than the posts calling it out for what it was because the bigotry was of the “polite and pretending to be well-researched” variety

without downvotes as a tool against crap like that, what have we got? is it against our instance’s “be nice” policy to tell nazi punks to fuck off?

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

without downvotes as a tool against crap like that, what have we got? is it against our instance’s “be nice” policy to tell nazi punks to fuck off?

nope! we're not going to ban for telling a TERF or nazi to eat shit or whatever. we as admins do try to be nice where possible, but you as a user really aren't obligated to be because that's dumb lol. you can also report it to us and in general we dispatch users who are like that as possible (although sidenote: if it's a post off-instance and you report it, unless the user is really, really bad we probably won't do anything immediately because we just can't keep an eye on every possible bad actor.)

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

Thanks for clarifying!

I've been super impressed by moderation so far. This morning I saw a post justifying sexism because of Bible verses and by the time I'd mustered a reply it was gone, to my delight.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The admins have taken a stance where this should be a safe space and those being insulted/harassed/discriminated against are welcome to respond in kind. The most important part is to report it so the mods/admins can review and take action as needed.

While it may not be nice to tell nazi punks to fuck off, it will ultimately make for a nicer community if they do - we don't mind community members saying "hey, this isn't cool" in whatever manner they feel necessary.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I’m glad that’s the case! it alleviates a lot of my worries around recommending beehaw to my LGBT+ friends

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I've had similar worries, but overall I'm coming around to the idea that for cases of bigotry it's better to just report the bigot and maybe also yell at them (which is allowed) than to put it to a public vote and hope that lands them at -200 downvotes or whatever. Not being able to downvote them stings a bit, but if they get reported and booted reliably, I think it's worth the tradeoff.

Especially since reddit definitely had the same problem in a lot of cases anyway. Sometimes, in some subreddits, transphobia would be downvoted. But in others, the """polite""" or even blatantly not "polite" transphobia would be upvoted. Sometimes even in places where I didn't expect it.

(looking at you, gaming subreddits mad about some trans people asking you not to buy a wizard game, jesus. That ~2 weeks was hell on the internet. And meanwhile, posts calling for people not to pre-order games, or to boycott games that have microtransactions - those are acceptable and go right to the top, apparently! Ugh.)

Edit: ditto for the similar problem of "" polite"" biotruths-styles sexism and racism.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I've seen a lot of toxic crap upvoted on reddit. Personally i prefer moderation over public vote any day.

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 year ago (4 children)

The initial intent of reddit was to have downvotes be for off topic stuff, and yet most people use it as a silent "your opinion sucks" button. That stuff just adds to the hivemind feel of reddit. I wish there was a way to have an alternative system of weeding out misinformation or rude stuff without having to deal with something like downvotes. I suppose moderation could serve the purpose of weeding out the bad stuff instead, but then each community would need to be moderated properly.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

An old forum I used to frequent had a downvote system that required you to specify a reason for why you felt that post or comment required a downvote. That reason (and the account that submitted it) was visible to the person whose post got downvoted and to the moderators, but to no one else.

It still worked well for filtering out troll posts and spam, and legit posts were almost never downvoted as you couldn't do so fully anonymously and moderators could take action when you abused the system.

I could see this becoming highly impractical when communities become as huge as on Reddit though, but for a smaller forum that one had a few hundred active users it worked really well.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Your text is almost exactly my thought process too. But unlike Reddit if you don’t like how a community is moderate you can go start the same community on a different instance and lead its moderation efforts the way you think is appropriate. Then the communities will follow natural survival prices where whichever community is liked more will attract most people from the other community

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago (7 children)

That's my same thought too, on Reddit you're always scared of "saying the wrong thing" because your fake internet points will go down

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Now we have infinite fake internet points.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

The good thing is the karma system is no longer here to torment you. You also won't be shadowbanned for arbitrary reasons like on Reddit. I personally do prefer downvotes to use them against bad faith discourse or trolls (there was a user posting female scat pics on random communities in lemmy.world)

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The lack of voting is why I still prefer forums over reddit-style sites. Voting, both up and down, stifles discussion and encourages repetative meme comments for upvotes.

I remember a reddit thread from years ago where a guy was trying to deal with a spider infestation in his car and almost every reply was a variation of "kill them with fire" or "it belongs to the spiders now". Many comments were made by different people at the same time with the exact same wording. The guy got almost no serious replies. I don't think that would have happened without the culture created by the voting system.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

Dopamine is a hell of a drug.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I unchecked the 'Show Scores' option in settings (desktop site) and I enjoy the experience a lot

feels like old school forums where people just communicated instead of all this useless gamification

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Man, do I miss a good forum.

I still have an account on a really great college football board that has taught me a TON about the most random things. All while being generally awesome people. Hoping at least some of this new (to many of us n00bs) world stays this way.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Honestly I like the idea of downvotes, but the way the reddit community has implemented them is just toxic. But that's the great thing about Lemmy and the fediverse: Don't like it? Go to an instance that's disabled it!

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (3 children)

If downvotes had been used as originally intended, they would be perfectly fine. But the cultural shift over time on the site from "downvote things not adding to the conversation" to "downvote what I don't agree with" made their existence more toxic to conversations. Weighing down unpopular opinions in the sort feed made it even easier for echo chambers to build up. Having a way to give comments that are productive a bump is enough for effectively sorting things.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I was on kbin for an afternoon and got downvote brigaded for calling someone out for spreading false info. I probably I could've worded my comment all fluffy and nice, but I was frustrated at the op for making things further confusing for everyone and the tone of my comment reflected that. I since deleted my kbin account and hoping that downvote brigade trend and hivemind stays on kbin.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (6 children)

I think it also fundamentally changes the conversation. Valid but "unpopular" comments can't get buried in downvotes. The voting system on Reddit was based on a sane logic that totally neglected to consider how people actually behave.. the idea of up and down votes to crowd-source relevance and quality of content makes sense, but all anyone did was use it as an agree / disagree button which broke the idea entirely.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It's kind of unrelated but I think the lack of downvotes pairs well with lemmy's lack of vote counting (a.k.a karma score). Counting your internet points always feels so performative to me and kinda ruins the point of upvotes in the first place.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I think that will turn out to be really important in the long run. The gamification aspect of karma score let to posts and comments leaning more to the quick and funny, and less to long and thoughtful. Especially in bigger subreddits. And then bots started to just repost and reuse previous highly upvoted stuff to boost their numbers even further.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah it's the lack of vote counting, more than the lack of downvotes, that I really appreciate. (Not to say I really miss downvotes or anything, I just really don't care either way.)

I'm also on Tildes and they also lack downvotes, but once you've been on there a week you get the ability to label things (noise, jokes, malice), which sort of functions as a more nuanced downvote button. But they share the lack of overall karma score, which keeps that same nice non-performative vibe.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I guess I'm the only one that misses downvotes. I don't take offense to being downvoted - the points/karma is completely irrelevant and I feel like it helps keep unhelpful or irrelevant comments and content at the bottom and out of my feed.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah, my concern is that the trolls will be just as visible as the recent comments, and that we'll get overloaded with "take my upvote", "this is the way", and "nice" comments which are essentially spam

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

This is one reason why I like it here. What annoyed me on Reddit sometimes was discussing "unpopular opinions".

For example on my local subreddit people would constantly argue for more housing density, which is great for affordability but any mention of "but what about transportation infrastructure then" got mercilessly downvoted. I really don't mind people disagreeing in replies but having a whole conversation downvoted and subsequently hidden is annoying. It generally made me not want to comment on Reddit, and just let the hivemind be.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I like the hackernews approach where downvotes on comments aren't seen, the comments are just faded out. The more downvotes = the more invisible it is.

Also thought this could be a cool approach with nice side effects - https://www.ucl.ac.uk/news/2023/jun/social-media-trustdistrust-buttons-could-reduce-spread-misinformation

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (6 children)

You've got a point. I was bothered with no downvotes until your post and it's true, we are free to actually have open conversations here instead of be received with being downvoted. Cool!

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I do wish there was another way to hide posts. I don't want to upvote everything.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You can collapse comments on the web interface (don't know about the apps), but it doesn't appear to persist across page reloads. Might be a good feature request

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Yeah, specifically threads/posts though, I mean. Since if you don't up- or downvote them, they persist forever.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

The down vote visibility should be a user settings option for everyone IMO

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

I agree! I'm liking it too. It's almost like that saying people would tell us as kids: "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it at all."

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

extremely sincere

Yea I totally relate to that. People don't like heartfelt actual thought with emotion ime. A quirky one liner though? Upvote.

I tend to let it all out on these places, like a journal. I enjoy reading others entries too.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Exactly! I once posted about a particular TV show, and how it really helped me view my personal trauma in a different way and empowered me. A really long and emotional and sincere post. After around an hour I got scared and deleted it because I had 0 comments and like 15 downvotes. I just felt embarrassed for not sharing a meme or something and instead being earnest about it.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yea I'd usually post something like that and just completely ignore my inbox and that thread...then delete just like you. I'm not ignoring my inbox here, even though I'm all over acting a fool as usual (:

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah, but what do I do to get that little rush of self-satisfaction from down voting a comment I disagree with? /s

In all seriousness, it may require a little more diligence from community mods to police comments which violate beehaw community standards since they won't fall to the bottom or be hidden as fast.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

To be fair, the report feature exists and considering that they do the submissions so well, they'd probably be able to check it pretty often.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I agree wholeheartedly. I didn’t like downvotes, but I didn’t realize how terrible the concept of downvotes really was until I lived without it.

Here’s my comment from another thread:

I wasn’t a fan of Reddit’s downvote system. It was a pointless, vague way to show displeasure without actually providing any useful information. I never knew if a downvote was because I made a comment that was factually wrong, the reader had a differing opinion, or simply because I made a grammatical error. Plus, there’s brigading. By itself, a downvote doesn’t really tell you anything.

I’m sure that in at least some cases, a genuine discussion (rather than a simple downvote) would have been more thought-provoking for everyone.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

Maybe an unpopular opinion of mine, but I don’t mind downvotes, but there doesn’t need to be a calculation of the sum of the upvotes and downvotes imv. That way both are observable for the users. If something is unpopular, you can see it but it doesn’t affect its overall standing in post hierarchy, pretty sure this is how reddit used to be about a decade ago.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It doesn't seem to work correctly — yet(?). Beehaw users can't downvote anywhere. Other users can downvote on beehaw.

Intention is probably that downvotes are not available only on beehaw for anyone.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It doesn’t seem to work correctly — yet(?). Beehaw users can’t downvote anywhere. Other users can downvote on beehaw.

the global downvoting disable is a byproduct of how toggling downvotes off works with federation: since you access other instances through browsing us, the current implementation can't distinguish where we end and another instance begins. this might eventually get fixed but it's at worst an inconvenience. downvotes meanwhile don't register from anywhere--if a downvote looks like it works, it doesn't actually. nothing happens.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Thanks for the clarification!

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