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We took care of both of our moms. It's hard. Money helped a lot - MIL had a nice savings So we never had to pay for anything. My mom had long-term care insurance, so that and her savings covered her care. It's very very stressful. You have to be able to get away occasionally and that's either hiring someone or begging friend/family for help. I hope that I'm accepting of what my kids tell me is best for me. Looking back, I wish I had listened more to what my mom told me she wanted/didn't want.