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When dating, "Just be confident" is just bad advice if you ask me. (lemm.ee)

submitted 6 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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"Being confident" is dangerously close to straight up bothering people. Plus it only really works if you're good looking.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 6 months ago

You've got it all wrong. Be confident that you're fine as the person that you are, and don't need a partner to complete yourself. That's what people find attractive. As long as you're chasing tail you'll be disappointed. Only when you don't need it will you find a partner worthy of the name.