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I work at a 3rd-6th public school in MA. I wore this hat to celebrate Pride month and last week of school. I am known for my 25 days of holiday hats I wear around the winter holidays. I do mostly Santa hats but also make sure to include secular hats/Hanuikka hats. No one has a problem with it and the kids LOVE it because the hats get progressively more outrageous the closer it gets to break.

So yesterday I get in the door and My Lead says "Do you have to wear that hat?" I replied "What? Its a rainbow hat for pride month?" And shrugged. Then my most vocal and conservative coworker came in and told me that "my hat is inappropriate". I replied that d"iversity, tolerance, and inclusion is ALWAYS appropriate". She came back with " if it was just a rainbow hat but with the Pride sticker on there its not ok. You want tolerance and repect but you aren't respected the other side. You know I dont believe in that and in front of the kids, its bad enough in front of us knowing we don't believe in that." So I asked her if she wanted to bring it to HR. She said no and i offered to turn my hat around. Then My called HR who told her that my hat is fine. Lol.

The kicker is the coworker was wearing a Black Flag hat!

edit Black American Flag hat worn by conservatives in the US

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[–] [email protected] 28 points 2 months ago (2 children)

The "other side" is the very definition of a lack of tolerance and respect so get bent, coworker!

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Yeah like what exactly would a hat representing this other side look like?

[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 months ago

Kinda white and pointy I'd imagine.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

They're like thinking (OMG. Someone is different from me... someone doesn't believe the same as I do ... I can't ever feel secure with that ... got to ... got to fix that ... )