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That's where I got the idea from. And that's actually something I thought was very sane from Reddit, that I bring with me, online and in life in general.
I hover over the down vote button sometimes, and think, "Can I add something to the conversation instead of just down voting? Sometimes I'll even retract the down vote and replace it with a comment where I ask for more info. Kind of a benefit of the doubt kind of thing.
I personally draw the line at up-voting something I don't agree with. ✋😅 I'll admit that. Just because up votes do send a message to others as well, as something "popular".
In life as well: if I don't agree with someone, I might go, "What makes you feel that way?", or "Do you have an example of that?" or whatever. Just so I can take a step back from reacting. With more knowledge of another person's perspective and feelings, you can more easily persuade them.
And even better, sometimes you might learn a new perspective that gives you a better understanding that changes your mind. Those times are even cooler. 👌
Understood, and that makes sense. I do try to look at the conversational back and forth, not just the individual comment. So if I find myself thinking someone I know should read the whole exchange, I'm more inclined to up vote the individual comments, even the ones I disagree with.
Another exception, though, is anyone being an asshole, even if they make a good point. I prefer conversations to be civil, and don't want to give any credence to a jerk.
I am absolutely on board with this 😄👍