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There's ways to help without sacrificing what little you have to yourself. A simple greeting and acknowledgement go a long way. Don't be afraid to interact and to just say no, I've never had a bad experience with that.
You could provide information, or something that's often needed. For example get a large pack of white long diabetic socks and hand those out. If you're homeless you often can't take off your shoes, so you're always wearing them. The socks change color if something is wrong.
Personally I don't mind it if someone spends money on drugs or alcohol. I'd do the same thing in their position. It's best to just be kind and respectful.
But if it really bothers you then go for gift cards or just go shopping with them. Giving food without asking is generally not so helpful. Also keep in mind that in a lot of places people need a bit of actual cash to actually be able to sleep somewhere. For example here in the NL it's 7.50 a night. So even if you are bothered by the potential drug usage, just think of the chance that they might just as well spend it on sleeping in a safe and warm place.
I get the impression that many drug dealers would be happy to take gift cards as payment.
That's a good point.