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Until you escape just keep your head down by pretending you don't even know who this person is (hope you haven't told HR your suspicions yet... definitely don't).
If this continues, every time you go in hr just feign ignorance, look like feckless workerbee and lie like you did when you interviewed for the position...about how you love working, and you love your team,the company... Yaknow the game. The good news about HR is they aren't there for the complainant either and they just added another mark on their record (unlikely it is the first) as someone who doesn't work well with others.
I won against my useless boss in her petty hr war by doing precisely this.
Oh, I'm not stupid. I discussed it in private with one of the only coworkers I can actually trust and I know he won't blab about it to anyone, and the only other people I've told are my girlfriend and my older brother. The person in question I don't really feel like I'm on speaking terms with anyway and I've been avoiding them for a while. I'll just mask extra hard from now on and go completely emotionally dead unless I'm with a customer. Time to armor up again.