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[โ€“] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

A whole lot more co-operation and less traumatized children.

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Except, I don't share the same values as my neighbors, and either I would be upsetting the neighbor by how I'm 'parenting' their kids, or they will be upsetting me with how they 'parent' mine.

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

I was thinking more along the lines of what those children would grow up with. They would end up becoming adults who understood trust and cooperation at a whole other level.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

I think the point of co-operative/collaborative parenting would be for the group to agree on how to raise the children. You collectively raise the children, not each adult implementing their own rules/methods. When you have differing opinions, you would most likely compromise and come to a common ground. The whole point of working together is to operate as a group to reduce the workload and not work in isolation.