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[โ€“] Dyskolos 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

There's no reason to forgive either. That's for religous dogma. If a person does bad things to you, it's a done thing. Fuck that person. Cut toxicity out of your life. If u can. Period. Radical acceptance of the things you can't change anymore is the way. But Forgivness? Nope.

It really hurts to see people forgiving e.g. their parents for abuse/torture. It stopped being your parent at that moment. "mother" and "father" are titles to be earned, no rights to be giving by procreation.

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

I agree the whole forgive and forget was invented by the guilty.