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Barbie: who saw it? (lemmygrad.ml)

submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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Today was the first day that both our kids are in day-care all day. Effectively the end of our parental leave. Me and my SO decided to treat ourselves to a movie and saw Barbie. We figured if the conservative sphere was getting pissy about it, it must be good.

Anyone else see it?

I wasn't expecting much. I have to say, I don't think I could have ever expected this movie to be what it was. It's campy, funny, colorful, and steps on your throat with it's message and hardly let's it off. I say that as positivity as someone can.

It's amusing to me that some people think the movie is anti-man. It did make me feel mournful for my daughters inevitable loss of innocence. A corporate, big budget toy advertisement of all things. I think that's the most surprising part. In some ways Barbie is the most unlikely and perfect vehicle for what the movie has to say.

I don't know. It's conflicting because, at the end of the day it's a huge corporate puff peace, but also... What else could deliver it's message to so many people?

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[–] [email protected] 40 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Lol man, every women I know has a story about being sexualized by an adult man when they were a child. Every, single, one. None of these men were considering wether it was the time and the place to shatter their innocence. That seems like more of a real threat then the "ideologies" of the Barbie movie.

[+] [email protected] -20 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I'm sorry to hear that. I was referring to kids though, not teens.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'll back up the previous commenter. Every single woman i know was sexualised by adult men as children. Children, not teens. Like 6-7 onwards was the first I remember personally. Prepare them. Yes you want them to have that perfect childhood and be children, but they also should know that men can be creeps and it's not their fault and not acceptable, and what to do when it happens.

[–] [email protected] -3 points 1 year ago

Agreed and we do teach our kids about this issues at home. We read books together, there's no question we won't answer. In my opinion we don't need Barbie to teach them that, that's all. It's like going to watch the Lego movie, we didn't even think of age rating, same happened here I believe...

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I'm sorry you seem to be missing my greater point here: Our daughters will be sexualized by a man even while they are still children, not just teens, robbing them of their childhood innocence, which is far more damning then me or you taking them to see the Barbie move... Where most of the films message will fly right over there heads, but could create an opportunity to have a conversation about the fact above.