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This is a fact.
When I was late teens I played vanilla wow, but after adapting to adulthood, the idea of playing with or even talking to people decades younger than I am (with maturity to match age) has absolutely no appeal. I really want to play a lot of the multiplayer games out there, but don’t want to play with a bunch of asshole kids with nothing better to do than be assholes.
Face to face, maybe, because there’s a lot more context and social boundaries and stuff, but honestly I don’t even understand a lot of what they are trying to communicate at this point, and I honestly usually don’t care, so it’s not an appealing proposition at this point. That’s the full whole reason I don’t play ttrpgs anymore; can’t find an adult group and can’t stand to be around a group of 14yo boys.
I just play them exclusively with friends and mute random people that get obnoxious.
That genuinely sounds like a good middle point, unfortunately it isn’t actionable for me as I haven’t any friends with whom to play. My humans have drastically different genre interests than I do, assuming they even game.
As someone who doesn't play with friends either:
If the games don't need communication to be good, play em anyway. Go for solo performance and if the team wants to whinge then it's their fault for being mutable. I give everyone a chance, mute them if they spam or go squeaker, it's honestly not that common to be an issue these days even in games like COD
Right from the start there have been adults only guilds in WoW though.
It's a shame, too. I don't really mind playing with other people, usually PvE, but when you're just so much more mature than they are the whole dynamic can be grating. PvP though? I'm not sure what's worse, the shit talkers or the teammate griefers who throw a game for some silly reason.
That said, I met my wife in an MMO and you very much can make genuine connections with strangers on the internet. Just... You know, if you're hitting 40 and they're 14, the FBI might want to have a word with you.