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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

It's concerning how this happened to you before…

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Yep, and it wouldn't be very far back in my history if you want to see it. My last comment in that convo started with "ugh". I was talking about transgender issues with someone who was extremely argumentative and kept strawmanning my beliefs so I told them in no uncertain terms that I was done with the conversation and blocked them. Later I decided to unblock them and discovered that they had replied not only to that final comment continuing to tell me I'm a bad person for their strawman interpretation of what I said, but to another comment I made in a different thread.

So this person who is actively insulting me also has the ability to follow me around and continue insulting me, and blocking them just makes me unable to defend myself.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Did not read the entire thing, but I see that you were arguing with a Hexbear user. Here's my tip for you: don't try to get on trouble with people from hexbear.net, lemmy.ml, and lemmygrad.ml. I don't want to generalise these instances, but there certainly are many delusional people around there. Stay safe.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I know about Hexbear and wanted to mention that it was a Hexbear user but this ironically happened just a moment after I made my own Hexbear account. I know some of the users there are extreme, particularly that user, but the community overall I find worth it.

That said I have to wonder what you mean when you say to avoid getting in trouble and to stay safe. Is there a history of people being harassed or harmed by those groups?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 weeks ago

Yes, there actually is. Two examples that I can give on top of my head is one user who allegedly still gets some messages by someone complaining in a comment they made many months ago, on a chapotraphouse post, and there's also the Fediseer page, that shows the instances that censored Hexbear and their reasons to why, which include harassments.