so horrifically in touch with everything I'm bad at, every way I just do not fit what other people expect
tell me you know that feel, please
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Highly, highly relate. It feels like I’m always searching to find someone who feels this way. Like in the context of social events, I will always be the one person at the event trying to find the other person (or people) who are also looking as lost as myself. But I truly never can
This thought has been there as early as elementary school basketball tryouts and persisted throughout the entirety of my pathetic existence
!!! so much this. I definitely try to find the other leftover weirdos to befriend, and it is not necessarily a reliable strategy, but it's better than hanging with the normies
it's why I'll probably never entirely give up cigarettes – they're just too useful as a social crutch, which I desperately need
basically the only way I have made friends in my life is spotting the other weirdos and being like hiiii i'm weird too let's be friends :)
and it's worked so far lol
this is great advice, this strategy has also previously been effective for me
guess I need to be out in more situations where I might run across other weirdos 🤔