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Boomers spent their lives accumulating stuff. Now their kids are stuck with it. (www.businessinsider.com)

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Millennials are about to be crushed by all the junk their parents accumulated.

Every time Dale Sperling's mother pops by for her weekly visit, she brings with her a possession she wants to pass on. To Sperling, the drop-offs make it feel as if her mom is "dumping her house into my house." The most recent offload attempt was a collection of silver platters, which Sperling declined.

"Who has time to use silver? You have to actually polish it," she told me. "I'm like, 'Mom, I would really love to take it, but what am I going to do with it?' So she's dejected. She puts it back in her car."

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Sperling's conundrum is familiar to many people with parents facing down their golden years: After they've acquired things for decades, eventually, those things have to go. As the saying goes, you can't take it with you. Many millennials, Gen Xers, and Gen Zers are now facing the question of what to do with their parents' and grandparents' possessions as their loved ones downsize or die. Some boomers are even still managing the process with their parents. The process can be arduous, overwhelming, and painful. It's tough to look your mom in the eye and tell her that you don't want her prized wedding china or that giant brown hutch she keeps it in. For that matter, nobody else wants it, either.

Much has been made of the impending "great wealth transfer" as baby boomers and the Silent Generation pass on a combined $84.4 trillion in wealth to younger generations. Getting less attention is the "great stuff transfer," where everybody has to decipher what to do with the older generations' things.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Seeding the land for the next generation of American pickers?

[–] [email protected] 17 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Every time I pass a cemetery, I think, there’s a million bucks in jewelry just sitting there.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

At my grandmother's funeral, she wore her jewelry for the viewing but it was quietly removed by the funeral home folks and handed to my mother before the burial. So there might be less jewelry than you'd expect.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Your mother is a grave robber. Smart woman.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago

I didn't mind the wedding ring, but I do wish they'd let Grandma be buried in her cheap costume jewelry. Let the dead woman have her bling.

Same funeral, my aunt asked me accusingly if the pearl necklace I was wearing came from Grandma's jewelry chest. It didn't. Grandma didn't own pearls.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago (2 children)

We'd need to take some cues from how the ancients did it. Either arrange for long term security, like the Egyptians, or rely on secrecy, like the Mongols. It won't work forever, but as long as it works for a couple of generations I'd be satisfied.

One idea that comes to mind for modern grave goods would be to bury them in a nuclear waste disposal facility.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I don't think we want to give an incentive to plunder nuclear waste.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

"This necklace is beautiful, but why does the air taste like metal?"

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

Bring back kurgans and put parks on them.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I'm thinking more along the lines of future archaeologists. We learn so much about ancient cultures from what they bury with their dead, I figure we should return the favor.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Geez they had a lot of absolute tat!

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 days ago

"Why the fuck was this man burried in a refrigerator and why the fuck was it set on fire?" I want these to be the exact words for when my inevitable redneck viking funeral is done.