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[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Telling a person wandering through the desert "I also get thirsty" maybe deflects from the issue at hand.

Or... That may be a show of support, in sharing of a common burden, a message of, "You are not alone in this struggle."

Rather than always seeing it as a negative, maybe allow for the possibility that it's coming from a different place.

Honestly, I feel like this whole sentiment of, "Don't attempt to bring any context into a conversation. Only stick strictly to what one person has decided to talk about." is not only counterproductive in that moment, but also in the medium and long term has a marked effect in shutting down future conversations about difficult and uncomfortable topics.

I mean, how many times does a person get into a conversation that starts with, "Can we talk about X?" or "Let's have an open, honest discussion about Y?"...only to add something to that conversation and be told, "No, you're wrong for bringing that up. We're only talking about X and why it's the worst thing ever."... before they get to the point where the next time someone says, "Can we talk about Z?" they just say, "No, sorry. Not interested."?