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I ran across that magazine recently and every post is transphobic af. Does that fit within kbin.social's code of conduct?

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I have mixed feelings about this

On one hand, Daryl Davis is a hero, and his method actually works to de-radicalize people. I prefer using this method when I encounter bigots irl.

On the other hand, allowing bigoted speech in your online platform has the potential to drive away normal folks and turn your platform into the echo-chamber where bigotry flourishes that you mentioned. This is basically what happened to Voat.

I may disagree with what you have to say, but I shall fight to the death to defend your right to say it.

I agree with this, but it's beside the point. This isn't a public space like a street corner, it's a managed public/private space like a bar, where the bouncer will kick you out for abusing other patrons.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (3 children)

A group of patrons sitting at a table in a bar, quietly discussing their TERF perspective, is entirely different from one of them walking up to a trans table and picking a fight. The former is an exercise of free speech, whereas the latter is cause for ejection.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

No. You don't have the right to debate other people's right to exist. Such speech is an act of violence and should be treated as such.

I don't want a group of people sitting around "discussing" whether or not black people are inherently inferior either. That is not speech we should accept in the public sphere

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Have you never heard "sticks and stones may break my bones, but names can never hurt me"? It's preschool 101. Speech is never an act of violence.

Additionally, nobody is debating anyone's right to exist.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Says the person who's never heard their own right to exist or the rights of their loved ones called into question publicly.

You don't have the right to "debate" other people's equal rights.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Except really, nobody's ever debating anyone's right to exist. That's absurd.

Consider this: If a mass murderer was captured and imprisoned, he could claim that the justice system opposes his right to exist. The trouble with that is he'd be completely incorrect. The justice system opposes his behavior of murder. No matter how much he believes his very existence is inextricably bound to his behavior of murder, the reality is he murders by choice, and it is that intentional action which the justice system opposes.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Did you just compare trans people living their lives without hurting anyone to murder?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Sure, and I could have chosen any other action, but I chose murder because it's not contentious to express a disapproval of it.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Did it ever occur to you that it's "contentious" to express "disapproval" of trans people existing because...there's nothing WRONG with trans people existing?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Hmm, sounds like you missed my entire point. Nobody objects to any people existing. Some people object to particular behaviors.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

You don't think trans people exist and that being trans is "a behavior" equivalent with murder.

I definitely understood the "point" of your bigotry perfectly well.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

No. No, that's not what I think.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

And yet, it is what you said.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

"Speech is never an act of violence" mfs when I use a public platform to smear them as child molesters, while simultaneously encouraging acts of vigilantism against "paedos": 😯

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

They're not discussing quietly, everyone can hear them, and they want to be heard.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

I only know about them because I subscribe to m/kbinMeta. If you stick to your subscribed magazines, as I do, you only hear those to whom you intentionally listen.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Except it’s more like a group of patrons at a bar talking about killing a trans person, and than the next day one of them actually does it.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What kind of absurd hyperbole is that? Nobody has called for murder. And certainly nobody has committed a murder based on a call for it.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Speech has real life consequences.

"Known transgender killings increased 93% in that four-year period -- from 29 in 2017 to 56 in 2021"

https://abcnews.go.com/US/homicide-rate-trans-people-doubled-gun-killings-fueling/story?id=91348274

"Transgender people over four times more likely than cisgender people to be victims of violent crime"

https://williamsinstitute.law.ucla.edu/press/ncvs-trans-press-release/

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

He knows. That's why he's desperately trying to hold on to his little platform.

Pick almost any mass shooter at random and look at their online history and you'll find the same story over and over again; "progressively radicalised by social media".

They're absolutely aware these domestic terrorists come from their midst. Find a far-right enough chat room and they openly celebrate it.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don't condone murder under any circumstances. But using 56 murders as an excuse to silence anyone online is a disgrace to the principle of free speech.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The principle of free speech, in America, has nothing to do with forcing people to tolerate hateful rhetoric. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Freedom_of_speech_in_the_United_States.

In the United States, freedom of speech and expression is strongly protected from government restrictions by the First Amendment to the U.S. Constitution, many state constitutions, and state and federal laws. Freedom of speech, also called free speech, means the free and public expression of opinions without censorship, interference and restraint by the government.

As long as the government isn't arresting you for your opinions then nothing going on here has to do with "free speech". Individuals and corporations silencing you online is not a "disgrace to the principle of free speech".

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

You're conflating the principle of free speech with the US 1st Amendment. The 1st Amendment is predicated on the principle of free speech. The 1st Amendment is completely inapplicable here. The principle of free speech is 100% applicable here, as it is foundational to western civilization.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You're talking about a "free speech" that only exists in /r/conservative echo chambers. You are free to say what you want but you are not free from the consequences. We do not have to listen. And it's not a "disgrace" that nobody cares to hear what you have to say.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Up until a few years ago, it was widely held by people of all political persuasions to be one of the foundations of western civilization. As the far left has moved progressively further leftward, they abandoned it. The only reason you think of it as conservative is because it's old-fashioned.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Up until a few years ago, it was widely held by people of all political persuasions

. You can't just make shit up.This is only exists in your echo chambers.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Wait, do you actually disagree with that? I thought that was common knowledge. If you don't mind my asking, which age-group are you in? (If you decline to state for anonymity, I understand. I just find this baffling. It's indisputably true in my personal, anecdotal, life experience.)

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

So you made it up? You can't state things as fact based on your personal observations from your echo chamber.

It's indisputably true in my personal, anecdotal, life experience

I could have guessed that. Your perspective seems very insular.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I could probably go out and search for a million random people who've experienced it too (like everyone older than 30), and some articles about it. But I said what I know to be true based not on having read it anywhere, but rather on what I've personally experienced over quite a few decades of life in America.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Right, no sources, just your personal experience. The hallmark of the "American conservative". Facts be damned.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

What are you, a librarian? Do you not go out into the world and experience anything in your life? Most of what we learn about the world does not come from citeable sources, but from actual real-world experience.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

the principles of free speech do not guarantee you a platform upon which to spread hatred. They do not give you the right to force others to serve your positions over the internet.

there might be something to be said about "platform neutrality," but it's still a competition of rights that doesn't really justify forcing a platform—especially a small platform like kbin—to host content it views as extremist, or especially likely to result in violence. Maybe you can argue that we should have higher scrutiny in the case of a monopoly or similar large social network due to the power of strong network effects, but... I don't know how much scrutiny would you need to apply to say "aha, this company is banning terfs for insidious reasons!" no, they're obviously banning terfs because their bigotry is dangerous and hurtful and giving them a platform just feels incredibly shitty.

A while back, I thought—well, I still do think—that platform neutrality should be used to frame the issue of large social media sites that ban talk about their competitors, like when Twitter deprioritized Substack (facebook messenger has banned competitors as well). I'd also argue this principle could be used to ban, for example, Facebook from manipulating its algorithm overtly (expliciltly, specifically) to favor a particular political party or an advertiser (outside of the ad itself—that one is already illegal, ads need to be disclosed as ads). But applying such a rule to general political standards and where you think the norm or neutral position should be is dangerous and stupid.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Daryl Davis does what he does in one-on-one contexts and other safe environments.

He doesn't go on extremist internet forums and try to convince a bunch of nutjobs and trolls and violent monsters all at the same time. He would have been downvoted into oblivion where people who are looking for somebody to troll would have found him and antagonized him until he left.