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[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Its a super power in battle/reaction situations. In all aplicable areas of modern age, its a nightmare.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Nope. Absolutely not. That is your experience with it. Not mine. It's a disability. Please don't describe my experience with a disability as a super power.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I say because I have ADHD too. My reaction are more thoughtful and cold in stress situations like theft assaults or accidents are way better that neurotypical ones (I'm from latinamerica so they are very common). But I have so much problems to do normal things daily and they are ruining my life.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Is that directly related to ADHD or just an independent character trait?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I have ADHD too and in those few high stress / life or death situations I've been in, I suddenly felt super calm and focused while some other people were just screaming. I read somewhere that people with ADHD are overrepresented in first responders and similar jobs and I can believe that.

That being said, I very much agree with JackByDev. Yeah, ADHD is a disability. It has caused much pain and suffering for me and I wish I could get rid of it.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

Thanks for the insight, that’s pretty interesting. But yes, it does not sound like it would be worth the trade-offs, if one got the chance to choose

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I don't think it is. There are plenty of neurotypical people who have those qualities and plenty of people with ADHD who don't. My wife has ADHD and wouldn't fit that definition.