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AITA if I gave an ultimatum to my gf for wanting to pose nude for photographs? (lemmit.online)

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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/silenthill57 on 2023-08-13 02:02:50.

So my gf of 4 years said a guy from her art class (she’s in art school getting her masters) wants to take some nude photos of her for his portfolio and she agreed and just told me last night. I honestly flipped over this. I told her I don’t approve whatsoever and said if you do it, we are done. She said I was overreacting and that I’m a jerk. She was non committal whether she’s going to do it or not.

I don’t think it’s normal for a guy to take nude pics of your gf. I don’t feel comfortable with it and it creeps me out. The pics would be fully nude with no covering.

Was I the asshole for reacting like that?

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Honestly, I don't think you overeacted at all. It's not a normal thing for someone to ask her to pose nude just out of the blue, and unless you went into the relationship knowing she's a nude model she should respect your feelings on it.