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[–] [email protected] 54 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I am so looking forward to my daughters to become students. Definitely going to discuss this topic through with every person I have to. I am so not going to use WhatsApp or whatever similar software again. If there’s no other solution, they can call me or write a letter :D

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Yeah but if you don't have brightwheel or seesaw or whatever the fuck, you won't be getting important notifications. They only only call when you're late for pickup or your kid shit so bad you have to take them home. Some of these are tied to billing as well. Don't want to use My School Bucks? No aftercare or cafeteria breakfast/lunch. Sack lunch only.

It's a huge pain but in many cases there's no way around it.

I'm aware the original subject matter of this post is different, but the walled garden apps that you have to use no matter what start as soon as they enter preschool

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don’t know any of these apps and I don’t know if they are used in Europe too, but if I really have to use some of these apps (and I understand that can absolutely happen), there will be an old/cheap phone laying around with these apps installed, they won’t be on my primary phone.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I concede that that may not be the case outside of the US. In my experience here, though, there's a whole world of apps and ecosystems that schools for children use now that I'd previously never heard of.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Oh don’t get me wrong, we have plenty of apps used by schools, I just don’t know them (yet). But in the end I don’t want to have any of them on my - at least - primary phone.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

In Europe Whatsapp is the default messaging system. Everything else is cumbersome. Sure Signal is better but only like 3 people have it.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Do what I did and send a message to everyone you care about saying "deleting whatsapp and switching to signal" or something like this.

It's also a good way to weed out people who aren't important in your life, I.e people who care about you will most likely install signal to keep in touch.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

This is the way. I had a story in WhatsApp for 3 months every day with a picture that I am going to fully switch to Signal and Threema and won’t be available over WhatsApp anymore. As you said, people who want something from me will have to jump over their shadow and write me over one of those. And it absolutely worked, took some time, but it worked. Some people even have signal installed only to text me. The rest just calls or sends SMS. I am from Europe btw. and it worked even though WhatsApp is so strongly used over here.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

I have an "Auto-reply" configured for whoever PMs me in whatsapp. Still no one cares surprises me

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Telegram is the best. Whatsapp copies everything from it.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago