I, like many gamers, grew up playing Pokémon Red and Nintendo 64 and was obsessed with Nintendo products. I graduated to a PS2 and PS3 and became super into Metal Gear Solid and Call of Duty and Fallout. Also spent a ton of time with the Guitar Hero series. I loved the escape gaming brought me and it genuinely helped me relax.
Fast forward a few years and I hadn’t really played a video game between the years of like 2011-2017. College, moving cross country and busyness of life kept me from gaming. Finally in 2017, I bought a Switch and Breath of the Wild and felt the same magical feeling I remember when I first started playing Ocarina of Time, or the first time I booted up Metroid Prime, or Metal Gear Solid 4. I started to get into online gaming and made a lot of friends. I played my Switch frequently for a few years.
During the beginning of COVID lockdowns, I turned more to reading than gaming and my Switch gathered lots of dust. I ultimately ended up buying an Xbox Series S when it was announced because I’d never owned an Xbox system and Game Pass really intrigued me. I went through a phase of being very into Destiny 2, Halo, Gears of War, Forza Horizon…a bunch of games I had never played before.
Then, a divorce, a new job change, another cross country move brought new levels of stress to my life. I lacked an attention span strong enough to focus on a video game. FPS’s seemed boring, online games couldn’t keep my attention long enough to get through a match, and eventually I’d just leave a game on the pause menu while I messed around mindlessly on my phone. Gaming wasn’t even a way for me to decompress anymore, it seemed more like a chore I was procrastinating—which sucks.
I’ve fallen deeper into this lately, as more life changes have come along. I work a stressful job with long hours. I’m now a stepparent to two young boys. The little free time I have I spend walking the dog, reading, and trying to just let my mind settle and decompress. Let alone, if I try to turn the Xbox on or have the Switch on my lap, it turns into a whole event where the kids want to sit and watch and participate and ask tons of questions (which is fine, but sometimes I just want to do something by myself for me!)
I miss the time of my youth where gaming was a relief and a release for me. I miss how I felt when I first got a Switch and felt so excited and so nostalgic and reinvigorated and looked forward to playing a game! Now…I feel like I can’t even consider myself a gamer.
So. That’s a long winded way to ask if anyone else has gone through similar ruts, or fallen away from gaming, and if so, what games helped you get that spark back? What games brought you back to that nostalgic feeling you had when you first got into gaming? What games help you decompress after a long day? What games have you recently become obsessed with in such a way that you look forward to playing them and are always thinking about them?
I want to get back into gaming. I want to feel the magic again.
Had this happen to me during college. For a long time I didn't play anything but league of legends and when I finally got sick of it, I stopped playing altogether. Then during my internship I decided to pirate two games I saw mentioned on reddit that were similar to Crusader Kings: Kenshi and Rimworld.
Proceeded to sink hours and hours into Kenshi, then tried Rimworld and it didn't click. Tried again, didn't click. Then the third time I had to stop myself from playing because I had played through the end of my workday, back home and hadn't had slept or worked on my thesis at all. After a long time playing those pirated copies I got the dosh together to buy them off of steam and Rimworld is a game I play every day. A little in the morning while I have my coffee, and a little at night if I have nothing else to do. I have over 3.5k hours on it.
The thing that made Rimworld different was that it is a story generator. There are other games that are better at survival, base defense, and basebuilding than Rimworld, but story generation is peerless imo. i mean I still remember how that base that I lost so much sleep with ended, I remember the name of the cowboy drifter who became the leader, the junkie crafter who lost his head, and his pyro girlfriend who put the final nail in the coffin for all the other colonists.
If you want to try something different, maybe take a peek at Rimworld.