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I recognize that everyone that has abandoned me will at some point lose everyone and everything that has ever mattered to them.
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And how do you use that framing?
Compassion and gratitude.
We all one day lose everyone we love and I have compassion for that suffering.
There is gratitude from having the relationships I did because the abandonment was inevitable.