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If someone's pronouns are any/all, what should I use or how should I determine how to refer to you and what pronouns to use? (monyet.cc)

submitted 1 year ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I want to be respectful but if they say they don't care what pronouns I use for them, that feels like it puts the decision on me to choose what to call them and I guess I would probably default to "they" because choosing a gender for them feels weird... am I wrong?

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Just curious ; if I feel like you're a he one day, and then a she another (for example), would that bother you, or would you prefer a person being a bit stable in the pronouns they use?

I'm only talking about the pronouns used.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

nan idc