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Unpopular Opinion

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Welcome to the Unpopular Opinion community!


How voting works:

Vote the opposite of the norm.


If you agree that the opinion is unpopular give it an arrow up. If it's something that's widely accepted, give it an arrow down.



Guidelines:

Tag your post, if possible (not required)


  • If your post is a "General" unpopular opinion, start the subject with [GENERAL].
  • If it is a Lemmy-specific unpopular opinion, start it with [LEMMY].


Rules:

1. NO POLITICS


Politics is everywhere. Let's make this about [general] and [lemmy] - specific topics, and keep politics out of it.


2. Be civil.


Disagreements happen, but that doesn’t provide the right to personally attack others. No racism/sexism/bigotry.


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Only approved bots, which follow the guidelines for bots set by the instance, are allowed.


4. Shitposts and memes are allowed but...


Only until they prove to be a problem. They can and will be removed at moderator discretion.


5. No trolling.


This shouldn't need an explanation. If your post or comment is made just to get a rise with no real value, it will be removed. You do this too often, you will get a vacation to touch grass, away from this community for 1 or more days. Repeat offenses will result in a perma-ban.



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Regardless of your position in life. I don’t care if you are a coworker or a boss or just a stranger in a restaurant.

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[–] [email protected] 45 points 11 months ago

Hello Rikudou_Sage,

Firstly, let's resolve your query on the definition of "unpopular". Here are definitions from three different sources:

  1. Merriam-Webster: Not liked or popular; not reflecting the views or opinions of the majority.
  2. Oxford Languages: Not liked or popular, typically referring to a person, policy, or sentiment.
  3. Cambridge Dictionary: Not liked or popular among people, often because they are perceived as boring or unsophisticated.

Now, for your provided opinion: "if you sit in a public place and have your phone on speaker phone (a phone call or music or whatever), I have little to no respect for you".

An opinion's popularity depends heavily on the demographics and the cultural norms of a society or community. In many societies, it is considered disrespectful and disruptive to use a device on speaker in public spaces as it might disturb others. As a result, your opinion might be quite popular among people who value courtesy and public etiquette. Therefore, based on this cultural norm, it seems that your opinion would not be classified as 'unpopular'. However, in another community where public noise is less stigmatized, this might indeed be an unpopular opinion. The context matters significantly in such discussions.