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Does your kid never return texts? (lemmy.world)

submitted 1 year ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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Assuming they're old enough to have a phone, obviously.

I have to send my daughter reminders to do things all the time because she's extremely forgetful. She's not annoyed by that, she's asked me to do it. And whenever I send her one, I get a read receipt and no reply. And I've told her a bunch of times that it's rude to not reply to texts like that, but she keeps doing it.

It's driving me crazy. She's a good kid, but why doesn't she return texts?!

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Yes, they asked for a reminder, not a conversation. Parents have to choose their battles. Demanding non-standard behaviour in order to do a required parenting thing like helping your child remember stuff is a really stupid hill to die on!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I agree. I raised two sons, and the only thing that kept me sane through their puberty was pragmatism.

I'm not even sure I'd send reminder messages tbh. Learning to deal with the consequences of forgetting stuff is important, better to do it now, while the stakes are low. Imagine her forgetting to pay rent.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

They got a phone, they can use the reminder app. If they want the reminder come from a parent for some comfort reason, that should be worth a thanks.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

I didn't demand it. I said it's rude not to respond. It's not like I'm punishing her for not doing it.