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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

If I sound aloof then I am sorry. But I have had to make similar choices. Saying goodbye to shit people can be truly difficult, but it's either that or endure their shit if they won't listen to you.

I am not saying to wallow in loneliness. You will need to find non-shit people to make a friend network, even just a small one.

It is a lot of effort and even the prospect is scary as fuck...but living a life enduring an untenable burden will never be better.

Sometimes life gives us impossible choices. Like upend everything or live in misery.