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[–] [email protected] 46 points 1 year ago (6 children)

My mental health is so much better than when i scrolled reddit. Everyone here is so nice and doesn't talk like 14 year olds with an ego. Also theres front page furry porn

[–] [email protected] 29 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I also find the limited number of posts and comments keep me at a healthy level of browsing. On Reddit I could get sucked down the rabbit hole of even one post, reading comments and replying to stuff for hours. There’s really very little of value that can ever be accomplished at that depth.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Me too man. I had a really unhealthy Reddit problem.

Theses days, after about an hour of scrolling I’m out of content, which feels sensible.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

I agree with this, and on top of that the lack of infinite scroll is a feature to me because it requires me to deliberately consider each post before the next page rather than just spamming downward looking for that next dopamine hit.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Everyone here is so nice

Until you mention Windows.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Even then, they're trying to help you.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Rarely. Mostly it's just anger, which is the reason why some people don't move to it.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Did you find this out by asking them?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

This

Mostly it's just anger

Or this

which is the reason why some people don't move to it.

If the first, there are other bad/tracking/adware things that people use and the people that try to help have a helpful tone. But for windows, people that 'try to help' always talk in a blaming tone and act like "I'm superior than you bc i use linux"

Or if the second

Bc you need some help to figure out Linux but if the community that is supposed to help act like that would people move?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

I have never hated Linux more than now

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

I use arch, btw

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I don't think they criticize people for using Windows. I bet that no one wanted to offend you.

People do criticize Windows itself and I think it's okay.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Idk people criticize most of the bad things. but when it is windows, things change a bit.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I think you can find some jerks in any community, it's people. But I doubt that GNU/Linux enthusiasts hate people for using Windows in general. I personally a GNU/Linux user and I never hate people for using Windows.

It's just like Reddit - they have more content, but we prefer Lemmy because of freedom. And we hate Reddit (and spez), not it's users.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Agreed, I went on reddit recently and realized how much anxiety it used to cause me. Fuck that place. There is definitely something to their algorithm meant to make you feel that way.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The front page furry porn is going to turn me into a furry one day...

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Sadly I can't share this experience, my instance is non-nsfw

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Maybe it's time to set up an account in another instance

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

"Everyone here is so nice".

Oh yeah? Well, you can freaking go hug yourself buddy!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Not really if you get into political talk, you will be shit talked into oblivion, and in the subject of pornography, i find the one here on lemmynsfw bland af, its mostly tje same chicks posting over and over again. But other than that I have seen before complaints from people on the lemmy.nsfw community that they are surprisingly puritan with the nsfw content allowed, and if you look for that type of content you will realize that its true, like i can think of various extreme fetishes that are banned that i rather not type here in public, but some that are more perplexing are like csncs, which its just a type of roleplay between 2 consenting adults and thats banned for some reason, and rape hentai, while i understeand while that would be controversial, its still a fetish sone people would have and its in draw form so no harm done to anyone, also some other gross stuff that nobody likes like scat or guro (drawn ofc)

Which like i said nobody whants to watch those last 2 except for the people that do and there even are comunities of those in reddit, so its very weird that there arent any equivalents here.

(Btw when i say banned i mean that they dont allow comunities that post that type of content.)

(And before you ask no im not into any of that type of the aformentioned shit)

Now you could say "well change instances", but i heard bad things from the other ones here that do allow some of that stuff, specially the hentai focused ones, which i heard are mainly legally dubius shit and a little dangerous to go there so i rather look for porn/hentai somewhere els