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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Ultimately think hard about why are you wanting to get married. What will it add to your relationship that you don't already have.

I'm quite blase about marriage. I just don't think it proves anything. I know lots of people in horrible marriages though so maybe that's why.

It's not the commitment it once was though. Now a mortgage or kids is where shit starts to get real.