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[–] [email protected] 18 points 11 months ago (2 children)

You know, I always used to think praying was incredibly stupid, and I’m sure plenty of people treat it in a way that’s… not really in the right spirit / ineffective? But recently it’s started to make a lot more sense to me. If you’re praying to god in an effort to directly influence the real world I think you’re misguided… If you think of prayer as a time to consider what you’re grateful for and what you want for the future, it actually seems like a really sensible mental health practice. To be clear, I am and always have been an atheist, and I don’t particularly like religions as a whole, but it seems like some of these things I’ve always found odd (like prayer) stem from something that could actually be reasonable and helpful but got corrupted by some game of telephone and people not understanding metaphors lol.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 11 months ago

Prayer can be a powerful self meditation tool. It's effectively a way to organize your thoughts by talking to yourself. What is not helpful is sending "thoughts and prayers" every time something bad happens without actually attempting to do anything to address the problem at hand.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

Yeah, I can see how praying could influence reality by altering your perspective or your behavior, really just by reminding yourself regularly about the things you really value.

There's obvious ones like "God please help me be a patient and considerate co-worker", but even "God please give me a new awesome car" - someone who prays about that 4 times a day is going to be focused on saving for it. God helps those who help themselves and all that.

On the other hand "God please make a free car park for me outside the shop" ain't helping anyone.