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The image is formatted in a tweet with image format. The caption says "handle with care" over two pictures. The first picture is of an Amazon package with "fragile" written in sharpie. The second picture is on the inside the box with a paper and the text "a middle manager's ego" on it.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago

It's hard to tell. There definitely was poor communication on the project level due to lack of a ticketing system. That led to him distrusting me and being rather open about it. There were also issues with the position itself. I was supposed to split time between development and monitoring a queue of deployment requests. If the coworker who normally handled those requests was getting behind, I was supposed to jump in. That involved breaking concentration every 15 minutes or so.

I regret not pushing back on the demands made of me. They were entirely unreasonable and could be mitigated. Unfortunately I didn't know what to ask for and I didn't have the maturity to identify what I even needed to push for.