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Polarization and an us-vs-them attitude has permeated the culture of the United States. IMO it's one way the ruling elites keep us working class people too busy fighting each other to do anything about the corrupt corporations that run everything.
One good way to lower the temperature is to do what you're doing: practice empathy. Folks should always try to empathize with others, especially people they don't agree with. Nobody thinks of themselves as the villain of their own story.
It's helpful if we make a good faith effort to try to understand where other folks are coming from, and try to meet them where they are. Easier said than done in this "Twitter wars" environment, but a necessary tool in digging us out.
What sometimes helps is to use more words to explain what you mean, and keep calm and respectful even if they go off anyways
Shorter soundbites are fun, but they don't capture the nuance. Saying "I agree with X, but also think Y" makes it clear what you think.
If someone still tries to pick a fight, it'll be clear to everyone else reading the comment chain. Can't win over everyone, but this might win over some while avoiding another pointless argument
You know the ruling class is not behind every policy. Polarization is certainly not a policy they try and encourage in governments. Sometimes the working class has to take blame for their behaviour.