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[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Them being happy for how they are, like myself being happy while larger.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Especially when it's something that goes against "societal norms" like diet culture.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

Close to where I was aiming

Each and every person is born with a preference of how they want to be, including body size.

Having a diet for weight loss when this is done in complete free will, safety and love for self should be absolutely celebrated. And the exact same is for having a diet for weight gain. As long as it's for reaching what the person feels the most comfortable in being, that being (almost) any variation strong, thin or fat, it should be celebrated.

What I was trying to say is the beauty of being happy in whatever body you are, or want to have. Everyone should be completely free to be the real them, and what they think suits them the most.