Warning: This is a rant.
I don't really know how to describe it but the content isn't quite where reddit had been for me. Also the comments are kind of weird at times, like they type of person here doesn't quite seem as 'normal' as what I'm used to from reddit.
There's a lot more open source and privacy focused people and conversations. A lot of people seem to hate on big tech and big companies in a sort of toxic-ish feeling way to me (not to say the other relationship isn't toxic.. just saying). Random conversations go into: "omg your privacy is lost cause you used a Google service." Then we have the 'if we don't defederate with Meta the world ends' conversations. I personally would like to see what Meta does in the fediverse.. maybe it will make it more normalized..idk. Then the: "if your app isn't open source its awful and terrible for the world" people.
Like that stuff is all fine, but it just isn't quite my cup of tea.
These things remind me of that one person in my comp sci classes in college who I just couldn't stand talking to. He would try to make you feel like an idiot by trying to sound all self righteous and smart. (Honestly he would fail and would generally look like a dingus).
The bulk of the content that gets comments seem to be mostly meme atm. At least on all (7/10 of the current top for me are memes). I like my memes, but would like some more breadth/depth.
Like I hope Lemmy continues to grow and hope it gets better, but it leaves me missing reddit at the moment.
In a perfect world I wish reddit corp wasn't such assholes and this whole thing didn't happen the way it did.
I'm completely skipping the UI and stuff not being as familiar and the various outages/bugs/etc since that's to be expected with something at this stage.
Please don't hate me :) Just sharing my unpopular opinion. Though I genuinely wonder if others feel the same way.
/Rant
I’m actually surprised to see an actual unpopular opinion, this was super uncommon on Reddit. I actually disagree with you on most things being someone who hates big tech and loves open source. But yeah you do have a point that a lot of people take things too far when it comes to that. But to be fair people have been burned and seriously hurt because of big tech and privacy issues so it’s a sensitive topic. A lot of these companies and especially Meta have some very serious issues that honestly should probably be treated as international crimes.
Another reason why Lemmy is better. Reddit algorithm will suppress actual unpopular opinions to push popular opinions in the form a of rant, to the top to boost engagement!
Another thing I've noticed. It takes a lot for me to downvote people on Lemmy. On Reddit, I just assumed they were a clown, downvoted and never thought about it again. Here, I am open to giving them the benefit of the doubt and assume they are talking in good faith.
For the record I'm ok with big tech in a symbiotic way, and a huge fan of open source. I have lots of open source stuff myself.
Technically these two together can be symbiotic. Look at Linux as a posterchild example.