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I'd been considering asking my doctor about this but I figure it's not going to make much of a difference at this point. I have ADHD and got my hearing tested a few years ago because I was concerned about how often I couldn't understand what people were saying.
Nope, my hearing is perfect. My brain just has a hard time decoding sounds sometimes I guess. A lot of times people sound like they're mumbling. I've started telling people that I'm hard of hearing and asked them to speak a bit louder, slower, and more clearly. Makes a big difference!
Now add accents to the mix, and the problem becomes ten times worse. I always feel so horrible asking my foreign coworkers to repeat themselves because my brain just refuses to pick up what they're saying. Oftentimes I get it completely wrong, or I just give up, smile and nod, and hope they weren't asking me anything important. I already have trouble picking up on what people are saying the first time as is, even clear native English speakers...