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Same kind of humorless dolts who inhabit left spaces on reddit and are a uniquely a product of reddit’s culture of total conformity. Leftblr used to make fun of them all the time. Speaking from my own experience, I am a tankie, or at least most would accuse me of being such. But I didn’t pass the Lemmygrad purity test, and they blocked my registration because I said gender is fake and gay on my application (gay used as a pejorative). Not saying I didn't or deserve a warning but yeesh context matters. Which is my personal experience, but if they are that way toward other communists, they are going to be way harder on perceived liberals so most people don't like seeing their posts day to day.
Wow, I actually have a small bit of respect for them now. Didn't think that was possible.
No shit. It's either complete obliviousness or the most straight-faced trolling ever performed.
You'd be surprised by how much innate anti communist propaganda there is on the internet. You should judge lemmygrad by it's actions, not what you heard someone else say about the instance without any proof to back it up. The developers of Lemmy made lemmygrad as a separate instance because they knew not everyone is ready to engage in left leaning political discourse to that level, and wanted to create a space where leftists can be without persecution across the fediverse. The entire point is to keep any "tankies" being tankies in that instance, and you have to seek out the instance to engage with it. Yet you find people in other instances frothing at the mouth about the evils of people debunking their false platitudes.
There's plenty of people on lemmygrad I disagree with on leftist politics/information but it's a very reasonable community. If you actually provide your sources and proof and don't convey it in a negative or condescending manner, they will engage with it fairly. I've never seen as many sources cited as in lemmygrad.
I think modern capitalist social media has just conditioned everyone to be incredibly vitriolic and hate people for "what" they are and not for anything beyond a label, and when liberal westerners come onto a site where they have to engage people who will call them out on their hypocrisy, they freak out. It's also especially hard for these people to admit their hypocrisy cause so much of it is based in false information that is spread as cultural facts in the west, and have been since at least the red scare, so they don't even identify it as propaganda.
There is definitely some pro CPC propaganda and apologists in Lemmygrad, but I can guarantee there is a lot more unjustified hate and propaganda against the CPC and all the good things they've done, in other spaces like Reddit and other Lemmy instances.
Tell me you have never interacted with a gay person without telling me you have never interacted with a gay person. I trust gay people to tell me when they are uncomfortable with my choice of phrasing, not faceless CIA agents behind a screen who can claim whatever identity suits them at the time. Sounds like you need to work on some of that ingrained homophobia, my lad, because that specific kind of labeling words of the gay community as bad is extremely common in TERF circles as well. Whole struggle sessions have been had over the word Lesbian as a pejorative, of which I assume you have no knowledge of. Drag queens express their sexuality by saying some of the vilest shit imaginable and they have done more for the LGBTQ community than a bunch MLs pretending they are the vanguard of the revolution because they misunderstood Democratic Centralism is an organization principle during a revolution not just for funsies.
I could quote Judith Butler's Gender Trouble on the subject but I won't since it is beyond the scope of this thread. However, with Don't Say Gay being popularized with Desantis's campaign, challenging liberal puritanism is a responsibility of anyone who considers themself left.
It's funny you should say that, because in fact I have a gay sister who is extremely active in LGBTQ+ mental health as a licensed psychologist, a brother who is happily post-hrt trans, and am dating a trans male. No, I think you're just an asshole. :)
Most of the gays I know don't appreciate having their identity wielded as an insult. Sounds like you need to work on some of that ingrained homophobia.
are you LGBTQ though?
because if not, this take isn't it; there's a lot about LGBTQ communities that you're not going to understand just by being around them or being related to them