Asklemmy

43945 readers

773 users here now

A loosely moderated place to ask open-ended questions

Search asklemmy 🔍

If your post meets the following criteria, it's welcome here!

Open-ended question
Not offensive: at this point, we do not have the bandwidth to moderate overtly political discussions. Assume best intent and be excellent to each other.
Not regarding using or support for Lemmy: context, see the list of support communities and tools for finding communities below
Not ad nauseam inducing: please make sure it is a question that would be new to most members
An actual topic of discussion

Looking for support?

Looking for a community?

Lemmyverse: community search
sub.rehab: maps old subreddits to fediverse options, marks official as such
[email protected]: a community for finding communities

~Icon~ ~by~ ~@Double_[email protected]~

founded 5 years ago

MODERATORS

[email protected]

do you guys shop on places like aliexpress/Temu and if you do what items have pleasantly surprised you? (lemmy.world)

submitted 1 year ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

69 comments fedilink hide all child comments

I'm curious what sorta finds you guys have had

you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

yeah you're right, we should just throw in the towel? tf? im gonna guess you couldnt give af about slave labor either?

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

No, we shouldn't throw in the towel. That's just giving up! We should actively pour fuel on our neighbour's house fire and admire the pretty extra destruction it creates while we can. Immediate gratification is worth burning everyone's house to the ground, including my own. /s

Sadly apathy is a common reaction to huge overwhelming problems. And it makes sense, emotionally distancing yourself from the suffering of others can be necessary to still function in horrible emergency situations like natural disasters. Unfortunately it also makes this problem, like many others, worse.

But we all do it, to different degrees. And it's human. We can't fix everything simultaneously. Those of us who are still able to empathise with strangers to some extent will have to do more work, or we become the problem too.

Sorry. This post isn't targetted at you personally, I just am sad about the destruction of civilisations and the suffering people can inflict and this post came tumbling out. My coping mechanism is loud spontaneous complaining.