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I know we pretty much all hated spez for all the shit he pulled, but a few weeks ago the tone towards reddit itself around here was more neutral. People liked it here on Lemmy a lot better, but people weren't hating on the old place so much.

Recently I'm seeing this huuuuuuuge surge of just pure fucking hatred leveled at the site itself. Anyone else notice this or is it just me?

I mean, I was there because I thought it was alright. I hated spez for fucking it up and completely screwing his communities over. But I never hated reddit itself, and I still don't. Otherwise I would've left a lot sooner.

Do you personally hate reddit? If so, why?

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I'm honestly missing them. Would you mind pointing out a couple?

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Going on about how "censored" everything is and how "certain political ideologies" are the only opinions allowed and anything else is "insta-banned" reeks of right wing extremism (hence, dogwhistles). I know I'm sticking my neck out to say so but given nobody has yet provided a single receipt/anecdote to back up their claims I find myself super skeptical at the idea that they're presenting even a marginally balanced version of the truth right now. There's a reason "certain political ideologies" (ie. the "eradicate trans ideology" and "destroy wokeism" crowd) are not accepted in decent online circles. There's no room for that kind of hate, and I've never met someone on that side of things willing to hold an honest conversation on it. They just want a platform to be hateful.

This strategy reminds me of right-wingers I've dealt with in the past who complained about being banned from Twitter for 'simply saying "learn to code"'. If you understand the context, the harassment, kicking someone when they're down, the dogpile they contributed to, the absolute hate campaign their seemingly innocuous (piece of a) comment contributed to, there's completely sensible reasons why a ban like that took place. But I know the playbook; these guys thrive in the darkness. The moment I start prodding into the nuances, they pretend they were trolling the whole time and basically ragequit. If they control the messaging then they can make themselves sound reasonable by tearing away context and presenting a whitewashed and often unrealistic version of what happened.

I could be wrong; for all I know this guy's talking about truly god-awful subs like r/TrueRateMyFace (I forget what the name was and it doesn't deserve to be remembered, as the mods explicitly support men posting their exes on there and actively ban commenters who "overrate" the scores they give out, while pretending they're working with an objective measure of true beauty) but I haven't experienced this egregious political de-platforming they're talking about and it's telling that they didn't go into any level of specifics except to keep harping on the "censorship" point. Not every opinion or argument deserves a platform.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

... damnit, you're right. That slipped by me last night, thanks for pointing it out.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Appreciate you taking the time to explain. That's not really the vibe I caught, but I could be projecting.

I, too, am upset at how echo chambery reddit became, and the knee-jerk censorship the mods displayed. I had an account permanently and immediately banned from politics for "hate speech" because I said that DINOs Kirsten Sinema and Joe Manchin were date rapists for bending the Democratic party over against its will after taking them out to a nice dinner. Over the next few weeks, I was silently banned from about a dozen other subs.

Turns out that the person behind it all was the same "powermod" who threw a colossal tantrum after being banned herself just a couple of weeks ago.

I disagree with you about globally deplatforming "the bad guys," because I don't get to choose who they are, and one day - like above - that "bad guy" could end up being you.

Don't like it, or can't deal with it? Block them.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

if you get banned from enough subs you get that account suspended. try to come back as an alt and get banned again, your get ip banned from the site.

powermods would abuse their position as mods of multiple subs to silence and harass people they didn't like or agree with. I myself was a victim of this.

it doesn't matter if reddit is woke, what matters is the behavior. doesn't matter if the powermod in question is left or right leaning, they still basically have the power to ban someone from the entire site, merely because they don't like your politics, or worse, one comment you made on one sub.

even if that comment is bannable, doesn't mean you should be banned from unrelated subs, let alone the site. it's also double ridiculous when you are a power user or other significant person in the sub who has helped build the community and some power mod decides you're a threat to them.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)
[–] [email protected] -3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Everything is a "dog whistle" when you don't understand what a dog whistle is but hear people use it and want to use it yourself.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Dog whistle literally just means coded language that an ordinary observer might not notice, but can be used to subtly identify other like-minded individuals.

Not all dog whistles are necessarily bad (depending on perspective). I'm an ex-mormon, and one dog whistle is a tapir. Without more information, it is too subtle to really know for certain whether I just like tapirs, or that I'm actually ex-mormon. But eventually, two ex-mormons might see enough signals to finally confide in one another.

A lot of the language you used is innocuous enough, and I didn't feel like it was at the level @hoodatninja claimed, but it definitely had a "Reddit was becoming too woke" vibe to it, without actually coming out and outright saying it, aka, a dog whistle.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

When you’re looking for dog whistles because you want to try and dismiss someone’s point/opinion you tend to find them everywhere. Not because they’re actually there, but because everything looks like one when you’re of that mindset.

Reddit became too political. I literally said that. Lots of it is right wing, but vastly more of it is left wing. That’s not controversial to say. Their rules and enforcement literally state left wing talking points.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I’m not saying anything about being “too woke”, no. I’m saying it’s too political now, being run by mods and admin that push their political agendas and censor and ban everyone they disagree with. It goes both ways, “far left” and “far right”. It just so happens though that the admins have made the site rules more “far left” meaning unless you play along with their talking points and ideologies you get banned.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

This is the exact thing you see in liberal circles - just say any objections to the politics is complaining about “being too woke”.

I’m basing it off literally seeing things people get banned for. You can see all comments that get removed by admins/mods by going to reveddit.com. You get banned for “hate speech” for daring to say something as controversial as biological males shouldn’t compete in sports against biological females.

I’m not a conservative btw. Have never voted for the Conservative Party in my country. I’ve voted for our “far left” independents more than I’ve voted for even our regular “liberals”.

As I said, Reddit has gotten too political across the board, irrespective of which way it leans. If they banned people for being pro abortion I’d be against that since I’m pro abortion rights. It’s just a fact that Reddit leans very left in its moderation.

I’ll ask you a question - do you think it was a conservative or a liberal that made “misgendering” a hate speech violation and ban worthy on Reddit?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

It’s not dependant on the community - it’s a site rule.

I wasn’t banned for “misgendering” - or anything else - so you can stop with that.

Avon with trying to dismiss a differing opinion as “oh you think think it’s too woke”. It’s like you didn’t read anything I wrote.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

So much wrong with this.

Firstly, misgendering falls under the “no hate speech” site ToS. Not sub reddit rules - site wide.

Secondly, admins are very active in censoring opinions and taking down posts. Again - reveddit.com. You can literally see that they removed posts very, very frequently. Not just mods - admins. They show differently.

Admins ban you from the site, not the sub. Mods can only ban you from the sub.

I also never said I don’t have a political leaning. I do - to the left. That doesn’t mean that I automatically agree with every liberal policy or thought. I’m anti abortion but I’m pro free speech. I don’t believe anyone should be censored for saying something.

People like you always make the same mistake of assuming that literally everything that could be considered “conservative” is automatically wrong and should be censored. That’s what you’re saying here.

And again - no, not site wide banned. I had absolutely received a 1 day site wide ban from admin for a post that said that no amount of hrt can get rid of the natural differences that come with biological sex, citing “hate speech” despite there being nothing wrong with what I said, along with science backing it up. I deleted my account months after that - the api changes but more so the extreme control being exerted by the admins after that were the last straw.

Thanks also for confirming that you are a Reddit mod or frequent reporter of content you don’t like. People like you are what ruined the site because you can’t tolerate differences of opinions. Literally what I said in my original post 😂

I’ll ask again since you still haven’t answered - do you think it is a liberal or conservative policy to ban misgendering and questioning of gender ideology?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Not a word about “misgendering” my dude. For good measure here is the content policy as well. Please point out where you see this rule.

It's covered by this:

not for attacking marginalized or vulnerable groups of people

They deem any talk critical of gender ideology as an attack on marginalized or vulnerable groups of people.

It's also explicitly covered here on your link:

Promoting Hate Based on Identity or Vulnerability

It then lists "gender identity" as a protected class.

Revveddit hasn’t worked since the API changes so no, I can’t see that. Please show me some examples you have since you make it sound so apparent.

Damn, wasn't aware of this since I just left reddit behind.

Well the rule doesn’t exist so there’s nothing to answer.

Classifying gender critical speech as "hate speech" for "attacking marginalized or vulnerable groups of people" exists, so answer the question please. Do you think that would be a democrat or republican application of the rule?

If this is all happening and is as bad as you say it is, then let’s see some links! A single link even! You’ve provided no evidence so far. It’s just a feeling you have as far as I am concerned.

If reveddit no longer works than that becomes pretty hard unfortunately. I do love how you're acting like it's a conspiracy theory that reddit is getting more and more left leaning though. It's fact. Go create a burner account and go in to any article about gender or trans people in sport and comment something along the lines of "trans women are still biological males and should not be able to compete against biological females" and you'll be banned, guaranteed.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Forgot one, deleteypants.

Please stand by your authoritarian views going forward.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

Watch out so you don't cut yourself on all that edge.